"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Strategies for pickup

skinnyguy

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I'm in a rut, looking for fresh ideas. Rather than posting about negative things I thought I would try to look for input and bounce some ideas. Please reply with additions.

-walking a dog. I got hollered at by multiple women cause the dog I was walking was so cute. Easy way to pick up cause the woman will initiate.

-yoga class. A goldmine for fit hotties and better than salsa class. The ratio is unreal (one time I was in there by myself with 40 women) and you already have something in common which can spark a conversation.

-travel. This takes planning and money, but when you are out of your home area you are more spontaneous. In Cancun this past winter I met so many new people and made lasting memories. If you roll with a group of 3-4 guys who are chill, you can really have a blast and get women easily.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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