"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Stop Taking It So Seriously

thederekeffect1

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Originally posted by Tempest

I take this area of my life VERY seriously. It's not just about girls for me, it's about building a lifestyle, social skills, confidence, relationships and LIFE. Everything that I do is directed towards my purpose. I don't watch TV or waste time. Even this post here is a contribution to that purpose.. [/B]
I agree with this guy. The way I look at it, women are always going to be a part of a mans life. Sometimes we do things just because "the chicks dig it". I think in every mans life there are areas that we all have that revolve directly around our lifestyle. Those areas are who we make friends with and the women we sleep with.

Don Juans, playas, etc. It's just the name for your lifestyle. A lifestyle where women are the focus in the long run but self improvement is the most important ingredient.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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