"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Stop stuffing the bible with crap!

What do you think?

  • The bible had better quality 2 years ago

    Votes: 10 47.6%
  • It's about the same

    Votes: 8 38.1%
  • The new bible is much better in terms of content

    Votes: 3 14.3%

  • Total voters
    21

Ice Cold

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I have nothing agains Nicholas. He's put lots of effort into the bible and deserves a monument for that.

But:

I remember when 2 years ago I came to this site, while there was still the old forum. When I read the bible it was compact, relatively short and informative.

All of the posts were of superb quality. There were no unneeded blabbering.

As I look at it now, I see tons of links from the "new forum". It seems that any post except "what do I do on the 1st date?" gets into the bible.

I think the current edition of the bible needs some cleaning.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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RandomGuy

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yea, i agree. some of the items arent even bible material and although its not bad stuff, some are just informal in its format and is repeating the other stuff thats already there. its too repetitive.
 

Survivor

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Suggestions and Feedback.
 

Survivor

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I understand what you're feeling.

But because the "DJ Bible" is a compilation of contributions from many diffrent authors, there's always going to be varying degrees of incompleteness, contradiction and redundancy.

The "DJ Bible" is a great resource for newcommers to this site, however in larger scheme of things it should be used as only a supplement to real life experience.
 

Nicholas Hill

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I don't know what you mean about the bible getting bulkier. Since taking over the Bible a year ago, I have added about TEN articles altogether. That's TEN, not a hundred.

Please don't complain about the new/old forum links. It will take 40 hours to correct the whole lot, and no-one's paying me to update the bible, so I think that I'd rather invest said time in macking on chicks, spending a few minutes each week keeping the bible in nice enough condition.

Very few articles make it into the bible. It is a beginners guide and reference manual. It is not the epitamy of perfection.

I think the current edition of the bible needs some cleaning.
I'm still amazed at the number of people who give their critical "thoughts" without lifting a finger.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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drixsa

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i too think its time for an update of the bible but when i have the time (which probably is when im dead) then ill submit some major input to get the page updated

until then put up or shut up
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Nicholas Hill

I'm still amazed at the number of people who give their critical "thoughts" without lifting a finger.
Out of curiosity, what could one do to help?
 

metahuman

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Originally posted by Nicholas Hill
I'm still amazed at the number of people who give their critical "thoughts" without lifting a finger.
I created an e-book in CHM format titled "The Best of DJism" with a few of my own articles as well ;), but I will not dare share it with anyone until the intelligence of this community as a whole is equivalent to or higher than the level of intelligence of the 2001 DJ community.

One of the formatting problems I find with the DJ Book is that it is unorganized with too many graphics.
 

thecraftylefty

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Even though I've read many, if not all, of the quality posts on this site, I'd be interested in seeing what metahuman has to share with us.

"If your rap is strong it can't go wrong."

thecraftylefty
 
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