alright, what's up guys. Anybody else know about this fear sh1t that likes to take control of your mind at exactly all the wrong times. Yeah, you know what I'm talking about. I'm not taking about your little fear of snakes or needles. Not your fear of homo's or women in black lipstick. Let's take a minute to get honest. What are these fears?
You have a fear of being accepted
You have a fear of being judged
You have a fear of being alone
You have a fear of being disliked
You have a fear of being inadequate
Stop and think about it for a second...
maybe when you're walking into a circle of strangers?
maybe when you're approaching an attractive female?
Oh you have these fears too? good. These are probably some deep rooted fking fears. Well They're useless. Let's get rid of them. They will prevent you from enjoying way too many of the good things in life.
here's what we must do. We must stop beating ourselves up all the time. STOP feeding yourself negative feedback and feeding your fear. Stop criticizing your every move. Stop worrying about if what you're doing is the right or wrong thing to do.
START loving yourself. Look in the mirror and smile. How blessed you are to be a MAN. By loving and embracing everything you are there would be nothing left to fear. After all, fear isn't even real.
START boosting your confidence, go to the gym, take up the guitar or any other hobbies, eat right, take care of yourself. Respect yourself. Realize that you have ALOT to offer any woman on this planet and they would be lucky to have YOU. You fking pimp. What's to be afraid of?
START standing up for who you are and what you believe in. If you have an opinion, voice it...rationally. If you disagree with someone, tell them. Don't insult them, but don't be afraid to speak up. If someone is wrong, correct them. "If you aren't standing up for anything, you're falling for everything"
START having more fun. Stay busy and proactive. Keep people on their toes. Be spontaneous. Start enjoying EVERY situation that you're given because it's only going to happen once. Regret is just as painful as fear.
START standing tall, keeping your head up, and smiling as much as your cheeks will allow. Our life is our own them park guys, Whether we enjoy the rides or fear for our lives is up to us.
-Accept yourself. Aceept Others. And in return you will be accepted.
-Stop judging yourself, and you will forget about others judging you
-When you love yourself, it's not so bad to be alone
-If you like yourself that's what matters, whether someone else likes you or not is none of your buisness you nosey bastrd
-You're the man, you're the catch, and you, good friend, have alot to offer.
Get out there guys. I hope this helps, but reading can only do so much.
-JDB
You have a fear of being accepted
You have a fear of being judged
You have a fear of being alone
You have a fear of being disliked
You have a fear of being inadequate
Stop and think about it for a second...
maybe when you're walking into a circle of strangers?
maybe when you're approaching an attractive female?
Oh you have these fears too? good. These are probably some deep rooted fking fears. Well They're useless. Let's get rid of them. They will prevent you from enjoying way too many of the good things in life.
here's what we must do. We must stop beating ourselves up all the time. STOP feeding yourself negative feedback and feeding your fear. Stop criticizing your every move. Stop worrying about if what you're doing is the right or wrong thing to do.
START loving yourself. Look in the mirror and smile. How blessed you are to be a MAN. By loving and embracing everything you are there would be nothing left to fear. After all, fear isn't even real.
START boosting your confidence, go to the gym, take up the guitar or any other hobbies, eat right, take care of yourself. Respect yourself. Realize that you have ALOT to offer any woman on this planet and they would be lucky to have YOU. You fking pimp. What's to be afraid of?
START standing up for who you are and what you believe in. If you have an opinion, voice it...rationally. If you disagree with someone, tell them. Don't insult them, but don't be afraid to speak up. If someone is wrong, correct them. "If you aren't standing up for anything, you're falling for everything"
START having more fun. Stay busy and proactive. Keep people on their toes. Be spontaneous. Start enjoying EVERY situation that you're given because it's only going to happen once. Regret is just as painful as fear.
START standing tall, keeping your head up, and smiling as much as your cheeks will allow. Our life is our own them park guys, Whether we enjoy the rides or fear for our lives is up to us.
-Accept yourself. Aceept Others. And in return you will be accepted.
-Stop judging yourself, and you will forget about others judging you
-When you love yourself, it's not so bad to be alone
-If you like yourself that's what matters, whether someone else likes you or not is none of your buisness you nosey bastrd
-You're the man, you're the catch, and you, good friend, have alot to offer.
Get out there guys. I hope this helps, but reading can only do so much.
-JDB
