spiegel549
Senior Don Juan
I have been reading a lot of threads asking about what to do when a woman doesn't respond/or is busy when asking them out on a first date.
Remember something..if the woman who gave you her number wants to see you...she will make time and see you. No matter HOW BUSY she is, if her interest level is high enough and she likes you enough SHE WILL MAKE TIME..even if its on her lunch break for a quick cup of coffee.
Women who flake, don't respond, and can't confirm when they will be free for that first date...ARE NOT AS INTO YOU AS YOU THOUGHT..she has LOW INTEREST. DROP HER and move onto the next.
Check this out
I have a home girl out here in LA that came over my pad today with 2 of her female friends for the hockey game. I was kicking it with them all day and we got into the topic of dating. I have known my home girl a real long time and shes a really hot blonde, a solid HB9, we have a lot of respect for each other. Her friends are also solid HB8's. They all go on tons of dates with guys all the time. I'm not trying to get at her or her friends because I like to keep a few hot female friends as just that...FRIENDS. Social proof etc etc.
Okay so...
We got into the topic of men asking them out on first dates, how long they wait to contact them after the number close, how often they text them, what they say etc...let me tell you...
They told me the guys that they are most attractive to and the ones they will physically fvk around with are the guys who do the following:
-Guys that wait a few days after the number close to contact them usually 2-3 days later.
-Guys that don't OVER text like a sissy girl and put emo icons like similes, winkies, tongue faces etc. That sh*ts for the girls.
-Guys who don't send paragraphs trying to make conversation.
-Guys who won't bend over backwards to set a date.
Basically she (and her other attractive female friends) love when a guy they just met sends a simple text saying "Hey its Spiegel from friday, when are you free this week?" Boom simple. Not hey baby hows your day going, isn't the weather beautiful, you are so pretty btw! NO! All horse sh*t.
They literally showed me text messages of guys that they are currently talking to with no intent of going out with lol...its fu*ked up yeah but its funny..
These guys are literally writing PARAGRAPHS to the girls and the girls are responding with simple texts like "oh yeah?" "yes" "thats cool" lol..
They told me they love when they test to see if a guy they just met is really needy by giving him a fake excuse when he asks them out.. (what c*nts I know) lol. But the guys that they actually REACH OUT TO, are the guys that respond like this:
Guy: Hey its Spiegel from Friday night, when are you free this week?
HB: Hey! I am actually not sure yet...I have a lot going on, can I let you know?
Guy: Cool. let me know.
BOOM GUY GOES GHOST AND DOES NOT REACH OUT TO HER AGAIN. That is the guy they call/text to go out with a few days later.
Not this guy
Guy: Hey its Spiegel from Friday night, when are you free this week?
HB: Hey! I am actually not sure yet...I have a lot going on, can I let you know?
Guy: Okay, let me know!
I am actually free Friday and Saturday so if either of those days work let me know!
*BUZZER NOISE* EHHHHH!!! YOU LOST BRO!
They showed me texts of guys that in between dates would ask them how there days going, and what they did today, all this f*king nonsense. My god STOP, just STOP! I felt bad for these guys. Now I'm guilty myself sometimes but they told me sometimes they show each other what the guys text them and all come up with a response to write him back JUST TO LAUGH WHEN HE RESPONDS BACK lol.....some c*ntish sh*t right there but hey it is what it is ya know.
In Conclusion
I got some insight from some HB's today, girls I am VERY comfortable with, they all are real cool with me because they know I don't tolerate the bullsh*t they pull so I am respected in the group..
But guys seriously you got her number GREAT. You hit her up with a simple text/call. If they don't respond or give you some BS you say "Ok cool. let me know." and if they give you the I am busy card. You reply with "Ok cool, hit me up when your free." THAT IS IT!!!!
The more you write, the more you reach out, the more you show you care, you f*king lose. Stop caring. Write less, reach out to the minimum, just to set up dates.
PLEASE guys wake up and take the hint, keep on plugging away, plenty of women out there!! :rockon:
Remember something..if the woman who gave you her number wants to see you...she will make time and see you. No matter HOW BUSY she is, if her interest level is high enough and she likes you enough SHE WILL MAKE TIME..even if its on her lunch break for a quick cup of coffee.
Women who flake, don't respond, and can't confirm when they will be free for that first date...ARE NOT AS INTO YOU AS YOU THOUGHT..she has LOW INTEREST. DROP HER and move onto the next.
Check this out
I have a home girl out here in LA that came over my pad today with 2 of her female friends for the hockey game. I was kicking it with them all day and we got into the topic of dating. I have known my home girl a real long time and shes a really hot blonde, a solid HB9, we have a lot of respect for each other. Her friends are also solid HB8's. They all go on tons of dates with guys all the time. I'm not trying to get at her or her friends because I like to keep a few hot female friends as just that...FRIENDS. Social proof etc etc.
Okay so...
We got into the topic of men asking them out on first dates, how long they wait to contact them after the number close, how often they text them, what they say etc...let me tell you...
They told me the guys that they are most attractive to and the ones they will physically fvk around with are the guys who do the following:
-Guys that wait a few days after the number close to contact them usually 2-3 days later.
-Guys that don't OVER text like a sissy girl and put emo icons like similes, winkies, tongue faces etc. That sh*ts for the girls.
-Guys who don't send paragraphs trying to make conversation.
-Guys who won't bend over backwards to set a date.
Basically she (and her other attractive female friends) love when a guy they just met sends a simple text saying "Hey its Spiegel from friday, when are you free this week?" Boom simple. Not hey baby hows your day going, isn't the weather beautiful, you are so pretty btw! NO! All horse sh*t.
They literally showed me text messages of guys that they are currently talking to with no intent of going out with lol...its fu*ked up yeah but its funny..
These guys are literally writing PARAGRAPHS to the girls and the girls are responding with simple texts like "oh yeah?" "yes" "thats cool" lol..
They told me they love when they test to see if a guy they just met is really needy by giving him a fake excuse when he asks them out.. (what c*nts I know) lol. But the guys that they actually REACH OUT TO, are the guys that respond like this:
Guy: Hey its Spiegel from Friday night, when are you free this week?
HB: Hey! I am actually not sure yet...I have a lot going on, can I let you know?
Guy: Cool. let me know.
BOOM GUY GOES GHOST AND DOES NOT REACH OUT TO HER AGAIN. That is the guy they call/text to go out with a few days later.
Not this guy
Guy: Hey its Spiegel from Friday night, when are you free this week?
HB: Hey! I am actually not sure yet...I have a lot going on, can I let you know?
Guy: Okay, let me know!
*BUZZER NOISE* EHHHHH!!! YOU LOST BRO!
They showed me texts of guys that in between dates would ask them how there days going, and what they did today, all this f*king nonsense. My god STOP, just STOP! I felt bad for these guys. Now I'm guilty myself sometimes but they told me sometimes they show each other what the guys text them and all come up with a response to write him back JUST TO LAUGH WHEN HE RESPONDS BACK lol.....some c*ntish sh*t right there but hey it is what it is ya know.
In Conclusion
I got some insight from some HB's today, girls I am VERY comfortable with, they all are real cool with me because they know I don't tolerate the bullsh*t they pull so I am respected in the group..
But guys seriously you got her number GREAT. You hit her up with a simple text/call. If they don't respond or give you some BS you say "Ok cool. let me know." and if they give you the I am busy card. You reply with "Ok cool, hit me up when your free." THAT IS IT!!!!
The more you write, the more you reach out, the more you show you care, you f*king lose. Stop caring. Write less, reach out to the minimum, just to set up dates.
PLEASE guys wake up and take the hint, keep on plugging away, plenty of women out there!! :rockon: