"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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stinky apartment?

Francisco d'Anconia

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penkitten said:
then you walk thru the place and get anything you dont want others to see, and either put it up or clean it up before you invite the chick over to help you do your chores.

this doesnt have to be complicated.
As if we can remember all of the places where we stash our porn... :rolleyes:

It's just easier to go to your gf's place. :D
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
As if we can remember all of the places where we stash our porn... :rolleyes:

It's just easier to go to your gf's place. :D
o sheesh! where all can you hide porn?
 

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Gallon ziploc bags inside the toilet bowl reservoir, under the dog bed, in the oven, on top of the fridge, all kinds of spots in the average closet, of course between the mattress and box spring, under the chess board, next to the computer tower, under the keyboard, in the toolbox, in the cooler, all over the basement, under the sofa, under the sofa cushions, in the breaker box, under the baking tray (we use them for frozen french fries..and cookies), Behind the water heater, behind the wall posters, behind the medicine cabinet, inside the IKEA catalog, in the backpack...

That's all I could think of off the top of my head.
 
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