"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Still can't get over this girl

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man i've been wanting to **** this girl for the past few months. she ljbfed me a while ago but she is just so hot and i want to **** her so bad! i stopped talking to her for a while but lately we have been flirting a lot at work. i use c&f on her a lot and tease her like no other. it's like we just met again and we have a new relationship. but she still says stuff like this: "you know who's hot? jeff." and i just reply with "i dont care who you think is hot i only care about what girls are hot. don't tell me that ****. i don't care." so she still treats my like a friend sometimes and a potential guy to get with at other times. so right now i'm confused. i have never wanted to **** a chick so bad in my life!!!! she is so ****ing hot! wat can i do? i just want to hook up with her once! right now our relationship has never been better. i am definatley djing her a lot but i want to take it to the next level while the fire is still hot. she is ground for the next 2 months so that makes it more difficult. but any chance i can hook up with her?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Scorched

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She is ground?
Like Grounded? If so, that's funny.

First of all, you do not want to sleep with co-workers!
Been there done that, it made my work atmosphere horrible!

After you leave that job and secure another job you know you won't lose, then I would try to bang.

I would take her to a party where you are the alpha male, where you are in control. If something is going to happen, its going to happen there/after. If you turn her down to sex, but tease her bro, she'll be obsessed with you the day after! Then you'll get to bang multiple times. :crackup:

I'm guessing this girl in around 18 or so. I bet she likes attention, especially your attention. Don't let her chain you along!

You could make her jealous!
Or use her as a sort of social reference.
Like bring a girl you are dating to work or whatever and flirt with both of them a little!
I don't see how you could fail. Just make sure they don't have a deep conversation or know each other already!

When she says a guy is hot. I bet you can come up with a better response!
Like laugh at her, and then 5 mins later say something similar about a girl?

Regardless bro, female friends are nice to have!

Good Luck, Update Us!
 
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Thanks for the reply man. She's 16 and she is kind of an attention *****. I think the best thing i can do is bring her to a party, sarge other girls, make her jealous, then try to hook up with her later that night. I guess that's the best way to go. Anyone got any better ideas?
 

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dont be so god damn desperate... stop giving her attention, your feeding her ego. i'm sure there are hotter chicks out there.
 
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