"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sticky Situation

lebob

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So me and my girlfriend of like three weeks haha are out on a date with two other couples. And the whole night she was acting like a straight bitc! She denied a couple of my kisses. Ignored me after i payed for her f*cking food and gas for a ride. Always in a ****ty mood. We get back to my house and she sits on my motherF!cking bed and texts the guy I pretty much stole her from but she says there just friends. Then on the spot i tell her i feel like breaking up. And she says no because she wants to be with me and she says hella care about me and i was like imma sleep on it. She said her reason for acting like that was because the people we where hanging with weren't really her friends and she felt insecure but she talked to them more than me! lmao But when its just us she acts so differently.
But is it a next or a strike?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Crissco

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The fact shes still texting the guy you stole her from, I say break up with her and find someone else. Or keep her on the side while your ****ing someone else. Also remember bro,what I came to realize is how you got them is usually how you loose them.
 

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Up in there.
Crissco said:
The fact shes still texting the guy you stole her from, I say break up with her and find someone else. Or keep her on the side while your ****ing someone else. Also remember bro,what I came to realize is how you got them is usually how you loose them.
He's right. If you were able to steal her from another guy, chances are, another guy could steal her from you.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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