"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Stick with it.It really can work miracles

toasttopper1879

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About a year since I met a girl who I fancied a lot.So i behaved like I thought I should and was very nice to the girl,offered her lifts,gifts and you know what.Anyway yous dont need guess the outcome.
She left where us worked and other than meeting in the city pubs I thought little chance of seeing her again.I started reading this sites info and bit by bit i started to practise what I was reading.I learnt where I was going wrong and then all of a sudden I noticed a difference.
Fast forward 11 months and guess who returns to where I work.Same girl still looks good and wants to know why I am vague when I seen her in the local pubs.Now i,m a bloody damn sight wiser now,got a totally different game and this girl notices.At first she is threw,then it turns to a it,ll wear off attitude.When it does nt wear of the flirting starts.All the time i'm flirting, teasing, not caring a bugger and this lass is becoming curious.All of a sudden I decide to get her hooked.Me confidence is sky high and I'm game to try anything.So I give her the bait(all i tell her is she looks like someone famous) and thats it.Shes desperate for the answer,which I wont give.She begs rings texts etc for a answer but I wont tell.She eventually tracks me to a quiet part of work,(shame its at work) grabs my arse,tells me its georgeous,lifts my top,rubs chest then strarts sniffing my neck.Thats a new one to me.She was now chasing me,flapping and flustered like I had been 12 months earlier.Do yous think I'm in here..
So whats changed.How can I be so attractive now to what I was last year.I,m the same height,weight,same sun tan(no sun in the north of England).Its a attitude thats changed,nothing else.
So what I'm saying is that it might take a while,a bit of hard work but stick at it cos eventually it will click.
And for me.All I know is I done the easy bit and now the hard work starts.
Cheers lads.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TedJustAdmitIt

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Nice one mate.....aye,feels good when the shoes on the other foot for a change:D
 

Maverick_DJ

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Haha, I know what you mean, its permenantly grey aint it.


Its a great feeling when you finally get someone chasing you, especially if youve been given the knock back by them previously.

Good work mate.
 

Maybnoob

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Its beautiful down here in London lol. But i like the way you transformed. Its funny how women seem to be universal. That nice guy stuff never works man.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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