"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Stephane's new message board.

Eulogy

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For those of you who don't know, Stephane is a montreal-based ex-PUA.

He's been to numerous seminars and has been interviewed by David D.

He and his disciples believe in "heart-centered love" and despise ASF and everything that is the "community".

Go check it out:
http://s14.invisionfree.com/IDEAGASMS

Oh yeah, and he gives squirting orgasm advice and sells how-to squirting DVDs.

He's also been banned from mASF for spamming his products.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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legolas

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I used to know him before he got involved with the seduction community. Let's just say that he had studied everything from DYD to SS and maybe combined sh*t together for his system
 

Eulogy

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Originally posted by legolas
I used to know him before he got involved with the seduction community. Let's just say that he had studied everything from DYD to SS and maybe combined sh*t together for his system
He ditched all that. Its not even about pickup with him anymore, its about "healing", whatever that means.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Eulogy
He ditched all that. Its not even about pickup with him anymore, its about "healing", whatever that means.
That sounds like a girly Oprah type thing. I say fvck healing and pick the scabs until they bleed (at least until they turn yellow and puss-y). :p
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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