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Stayin Completely Sober Tonight...And I'll Just Be Better!

Pecker

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I've hooked up with random chicks twice in a row when I was completely drunk. I'd just dance on the dancefloor and get them dancin dirty then kiss them. Pretty simple deal.

Well I'm not consuming one drop of alcohol tonight. I am going to work myself into a trance-like state of supreme confidence. I will meditate for two hours straight at least and find that inner source of infinite confidence, and live there tonight.

If there's one thing that being really drunk can teach you, it's this: confidence really DOES work. Confidence, confidence, confidence. You don't even need "game" or half the information on this site if you had true, genuine confidence.

HALT, NAYSAYERS!

You're thinking "Well the girls are drunk too. That's why it's easy to hook up with them when YOU are drunk"

Incorrect. I've hooked up with SOBER girls when I was drunk as long as I wasn't too too sloppy.

When I'm on the dance floor and I start to dance wtih a girl she'll usually laugh with her friends and seem nervous at first. Then as I continue to dance with her she'll go with it and soon I'm slappin the arse and rubbin my junk on her trunk. My point is that there are several layers of resistance that super confidence can simply plow right through. You can even be CLUNKILY CONFIDENT!!! That means not bein clever or smooth, just blunt.

Now I will meditate and work myself into a frenzy of confidence. I will not give a crud what happens and I will dance with every girl in sight. I'll tell you all about it later
 

wheelin&dealin

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Congratulations Pecker,

You have achieved something that 95% of the population will never understand. Sobriety is the key to success when picking-up women. All you need is confidence.

I just laugh at all the people that drink heavily hoping that they will have enough confidence by the end of the night to approach a single chick. It's purely ridiculous. These people do not understand that they are just running from their problems by drinking alcohol. If they had any testicles whatsoever they would approach chicks sober.

I'm glad that you have found out the meaning of true confidence because most people do not understand this, and drink all their lives to cover up their lack of confidence.

Good luck with the ladies,
 

Pecker

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I did it. Didn't have any alcohol the entire night tonight. I'm feelin pretty proud of myself.

Too bad I'm not feelin any boob, though.

I was sposed to go out with two guys, good wingmen. Then we went to one of their houses and they all started drinking and I hung around waiting for them. Then we left with like 6 or 7 other guys. When you're sober and trying to walk to a party with 7 other drunk guys....it gets quite frustrating.

So they frustrated me, and at the party they wanted to fight some other guys for some petty reason. I left them and met up with some other friends but by then I was a little pissed and off my game. I had one good conversation and practiced my listening and EC skills but didn't want her number. There weren't any good dancing parties otherwise I would have had a blast.

Oh well. No regrets anyway. I've got some other stuff in the works.
 

One on One

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I hope to quit drinking and clubbing for the next month. I'm just tired of all the **** that is going on.
 

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Yeah I'm off drinking for a year cos I'm training. Go the sober DJ posse!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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