Stay or RUN ?

[darktriadite]

So there's this girl I've been hooking up with since a couple of months, seemed shy sweet, demure multitalented and funny, good grades
But,

1. Divorced family, lives with mom and apparently has been used by both parents for years to spy on each other. Thinks her dad is a jerk

2. Very few close female friends despite being in a girls college

3. A lot of guy friends who aren't in her circle but friends through social networking

4. Lot of tattoos

5. Self harms and shows me

6. Has probably slept with 6-7 guys though she says 3. Insanely unbelievable sex

7. A bit of hair dyed purple

8. Says her ex beat himself up and cried and she laughed about it

9. Obsessed with death and murders and ****

10. Ex flings/ 'close friends' in the picture constantly trying to meet and she leads them on. I get pissed and she says we're just friends

11. Her mom wants her to make rich friends

12. Apparently said her mom told her to marry a rich dude and divorce him, talks about taking assets and ****

13. Isn't really fond of kids

14. Grandiose dreams about Paris and love and other things

15. Bitches about her only girlfriends really hard

16. Has always been "dumped", never her fault

17. Her sister beats walls till bruised while she scratches herself till bleeds

18. Her mom seems like an alcoholic but meh

19. Talks about having been stalked and all

20. Very weird lies about needles and blades and being an assassin or a doctor

21. Is comfortable around dead people

22. Dog died and she barks and pretends to be a dog sometimes, once while I was smashing her lol

What do I do ?

 

[EverSure75]

You know what to do, bro.
The only plus I see on that list is good sex.
No sex is worth the drama that can arise from everything else you typed.

 

[MrWood]

#(nill) = stay
#5,10,17,20 = RUN FOREST, RUN!

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Just fvck her, you don't have to be in a relationship with her. If you are in a relationship with her though, then you better break Usain Bolt's world record.

 

[wifehunter]

wouldn't touch with a 10 foot pole...

dissappear!

 

[dude99]

So there's this girl I've been hooking up with since a couple of months, seemed shy sweet, demure multitalented and funny, good grades
But,

1. Divorced family, lives with mom and apparently has been used by both parents for years to spy on each other. Thinks her dad is a jerk

2. Very few close female friends despite being in a girls college

3. A lot of guy friends who aren't in her circle but friends through social networking

4. Lot of tattoos

5. Self harms and shows me

6. Has probably slept with 6-7 guys though she says 3. Insanely unbelievable sex

7. A bit of hair dyed purple

8. Says her ex beat himself up and cried and she laughed about it

9. Obsessed with death and murders and ****

10. Ex flings/ 'close friends' in the picture constantly trying to meet and she leads them on. I get pissed and she says we're just friends

11. Her mom wants her to make rich friends

12. Apparently said her mom told her to marry a rich dude and divorce him, talks about taking assets and ****

13. Isn't really fond of kids

14. Grandiose dreams about Paris and love and other things

15. Bitches about her only girlfriends really hard

16. Has always been "dumped", never her fault

17. Her sister beats walls till bruised while she scratches herself till bleeds

18. Her mom seems like an alcoholic but meh

19. Talks about having been stalked and all

20. Very weird lies about needles and blades and being an assassin or a doctor

21. Is comfortable around dead people

22. Dog died and she barks and pretends to be a dog sometimes, once while I was smashing her lol

What do I do ?

Run.

 

[MrWiggles]

uhhhh definitely marry this girl, you will NOT regret it at all

 

[El Payaso]

Sounds like a winner. You should propose to her.

 

[Billtx49]

"Has always been dumped", That's the only clue you need to work from.
Don't be a trash collector.

 

[darktriadite]

Dumped her even though I know I've caught feelings, dropped my plates during this time, what else is gonna help ? Gymming ?

 

[NSX-R]

Dumped her even though I know I've caught feelings, dropped my plates during this time, what else is gonna help ? Gymming ?

Start spinning plates

 

[Mike32ct]

Spinning the SS Wheel.

It's slowing down on $100, $500, and the pointer ends up on "Lose a Turn." Run like hell.

Honestly, I think the self-harm one scares me the most. Nothing good can come from this.

 

[darktriadite]

Spinning the SS Wheel.

It's slowing down on $100, $500, and the pointer ends up on "Lose a Turn." Run like hell.

Honestly, I think the self-harm one scares me the most. Nothing good can come from this.

I've NEVER seen her shout or rage straight up, except snide comments about something that disturbed her a week back. Weirdly manipulative. Instead of raging she starts to scratch herself. I'm like wtf are you doing

Question arises nothing was present 2-3 months into the relationship, how do we weed out women who would show odd behaviours once feelings are caught