stating the obvious but is it necessary?

[pete101]

if a HB has flaked on you and texts she'll call u later/tomorrow or tells u to call her to arrange another time, if u were to say 'if you've cancelled it's your responsibility to offer another time.. not mine.'

is this just going to backfire on you?

it seems some of these spoilt girls who are used to men always chasing them rearranging meetings that they get used to that behaviour.. is stating this obvious point to her that it's up to her to do it going to make u look petty or clingy?

 

[Mandiblard]

Nah it shows you don't care that much and she'll be thinking about it

 

[pete101]

so you're saying it's a good idea to write that?

 

[ready123]

Nah it shows you don't care that much and she'll be thinking about it

depending on the context, it might also tell her the opposite - that you care too much and thats why you're going out of your way to let her know

this is one of those gray areas

 

[DJDamage]

Don't need to say nothing.

It is the reason why when you are dating, you should always date more then one girl. If one flakes, then too bad for her and you are naturally going to go on dates with women who don't flakes.

Sure you can keep this flakey woman around but she needs to really make it up to you.

 

[pete101]

well i sent it plus i added 'you're losing points with me now.' after it. duno if that was bad move or not.

but she hasn't replied. in her mind she's thinking her cancellation excuses are fine cos she was working late etc.. but to me a flake is a flake so im quite cynical.

really she should call me back tonight at the latest. but is she going to test to see whether i call her first?

it's p1ssing me off cos she cancelled twice with supposedly legitimate excuses yet i still dont trust what she says. if i call her tomorrow to make arrangements again am i just going to look way too keen?

 

[Gangster Of Love]

HB???? I thought you said she wasn't even hot. Oh, I forgot, you were just trying to protect your ego.

Let it go man. You are more drama than a woman.