“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Starting to think the juice isnt worth the squeeze

derby1

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id like to meet better quality women any pointers?,
live in the UK, Areas overwhelmed with single moms, with minimum 2 kids, all women in the area have Alcoholism, no courtesy whatsoever, dysfunctional houses, its all getting a bit tedious

Where can i start going to? we only live in small Towns in the UK the closest citys are 50 minutes
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Good luck Because every other single guys also looking for the elusive no kids, not a drunk/druggie, relatively sane women who purportedly exist out there.
 

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id like to meet better quality women any pointers?,
live in the UK, Areas overwhelmed with single moms, with minimum 2 kids, all women in the area have Alcoholism, no courtesy whatsoever, dysfunctional houses, its all getting a bit tedious

Where can i start going to? we only live in small Towns in the UK the closest citys are 50 minutes
I feel your pain. My region of Floriduh is no better. You have to drive over an hour and a half to get to a place with any chance of finding quality women.

As I said. Here in FL women 30 and over many are divorced, moved from up north to run away from their problems, have multiple kids, VERY snobby, gold digging and many have a lot of baggage.

The last 3 OLD dates for example were high end HB material. Each one was divorced. They had teaching jobs and college degrees, but snobby or damaged goods. The one date went on and on about her family problems and being sexually abused and seeing a psychatrist and then bashed me for mentioning my father passed away and not being "over it."

On my street alone I got two single milfs. One 3 houses down and another one a couple houses down across the street. The one is late 30s, as far as I know does NOT work at all and her mom lives there. She has two kids. She's never working, just walking the dogs. She was a solid HB7 when I moved there 4 years ago! then this year she looks really rough like she is taking a lot of drugs or drinking. Aged a lot.

Across the street is an HB9 MILF 2 kids. I think she teaches or something but I know she works. Probably about 42 or so but a very nice lady whenever I've talked to her when she comes into my grocery store. Looks like she might be a bit snobby and she's a bit too old for me so I never bother trying to talk her up. Again, single mom multiple kids. I think she teaches part time but I know it's no 40 hour job.

Everywhere I go down here it's either damaged goods single moms or they're already married. I just don't see a lot of decent women 30 and over down here really.

I would go after mid 20s too but VERY few of them around here. After college they move away to places like Tampa. It's very slim pickings in this region of FL for anything decent. OLD has hardly anything on there as well.

The HB7 I'm talking with I'm probably going to go on a date with turns 40 soon and is complaining she can't find a lot of single guys down here as well.

Overall it's not the kids thing. I understand if you had a divorce. If you have a child but can support it properly and not looking at ME to shell out money for him/her then I'm cool with it. IF we were to get married and their kids are under 18, as a step dad I would help out and raise and try to help support them.

My biggest beef with baggage is most of these single women 30 and over and seriously bat sh** crazy in the head which is my biggest beef. Narcissistic thinking, snobby, gold digging, stuck up, prissy, overall rude and controlling.

The last three high end HB dates the women were seriously bat sh** crazy and I can see why they are using match to have to find someone. No way a woman that hot doesn't have friends who can hook her up or meet someone at work or in social settings. It shows they're so fooked that guys run after a couple dates despite their hot looks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Sounds like you're in the North?

I find the southern coast to hold more classy women

I live in Brighton where practically no one has children

But a word of warning - it's also more liberal & feminist

That's the trouble these days

You're either faced with white-trash or loony lefties

There is no middle ground anymore
 

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My biggest beef with baggage is most of these single women 30 and over and seriously bat sh** crazy in the head which is my biggest beef. Narcissistic thinking, snobby, gold digging, stuck up, prissy, overall rude and controlling.
totally agree ive met with about 10 in a row you can literally predict their behaviour(ie phone addicts) and theyll have no intelligent convo, theyll say numerous red flag comments and thats ok .......but you say 1 thing slightly not to their suiting and shell look shell shocked
 

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Sounds like you're in the North?

I find the southern coast to hold more classy women

I live in Brighton where practically no one has children

But a word of warning - it's also more liberal & feminist

That's the trouble these days

You're either faced with white-trash or loony lefties

There is no middle ground anymore
yes midlands mate, came down to Cirencester the other week, and was took back by the total difference, no alcohol culture, no tattoos, hot women everywhere , no welfare or so it appeared.........i work, and have a daughter up here so its not convenient for me to move sadly
 

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id like to meet better quality women any pointers?,
live in the UK, Areas overwhelmed with single moms, with minimum 2 kids, all women in the area have Alcoholism, no courtesy whatsoever, dysfunctional houses, its all getting a bit tedious

Where can i start going to? we only live in small Towns in the UK the closest citys are 50 minutes
Eastern Europe
 

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totally agree ive met with about 10 in a row you can literally predict their behaviour(ie phone addicts) and theyll have no intelligent convo, theyll say numerous red flag comments and thats ok .......but you say 1 thing slightly not to their suiting and shell look shell shocked
Yep. Or texting between the date they text your eyeballs off to the point it interferes with your work. The last one did just that and on the date talked her head off and after the date too then did a 360 on me suddenly.

One of the dates I had over the summer was like that which I posted about. Solid, nearly a HB10 from OLD. You might recall she drove almost 60 miles to see me because she didn't want to be "seen" in her town due to her job and then on the date a total narcissist snob and insulted the business I own in the middle of a date. A coworkers at my part time job said I should have just ended the date there and not put up with that behavior from dates anymore. When I told her the business I owned she was shocked and mood went from happy, maybe just slightly snobby to rude, stuck up and such. She was thinking I was a millionaire or something and she was a gold digger because I had nice clothes on. A lot of these women will try and pry you for your financial status even on a first date.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Everyone goes on about Eastern European women, there's hundreds of them working in factories here in the UK that i do security for, and there the most angriest masculine things ive come across....so dont know about that
 

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Everyone goes on about Eastern European women, there's hundreds of them working in factories here in the UK that i do security for, and there the most angriest masculine things ive come across....so dont know about that
Eastern european women that leave their countries are usually left overs or attention wh0res looking to live the "feminist dream" that cant clearly be lived in countries were trash doesnt get worshipped.

I kid you not all the eastern european women I met in London within few weeks of being there were as trash as the local ones.

If you are above mid 30s anyway say good bye to any hope of a decent family unless you are willing to move abroad long term.
 

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id like to meet better quality women any pointers?,
live in the UK, Areas overwhelmed with single moms, with minimum 2 kids, all women in the area have Alcoholism, no courtesy whatsoever, dysfunctional houses, its all getting a bit tedious

Where can i start going to? we only live in small Towns in the UK the closest citys are 50 minutes
I chain gun cold approach irl. OLD is phaggotry.

The process is not linear. Its time consuming. Hence the suggestion to approach 3x per day. Training wheels. Cultivate Being that guy. In time, it becomes second nature.

In a girl power victimhood society, you are in the trenches. Sink or swim.

Keep me posted mate. Just never base your self concept on women.
 

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Explain that to me as a Spaniard. Tell me do.
What happens to the good kid once he leaves his overbearing family full of rules and limitations to join an high school were the other students party hard, get drunk and smoke?

He will be the one making even more mess than the others, getting drunk more often and smoking full time for the simple fact that is newfound freedom is like fresh fruit to a previously starving man.

Its the same things that happens to western european men that move east and realize that eastern european women are much more tolerant toward flaws given the different sexual market.
 

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Mate I said close to Europe as in a 100 Euro flight. I know the village thing is strong in Britain but for fuksake you're sons of the empire world citizens
 
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If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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