Started dating HB 9, have no urge to have sex with her

[evansblue]

I have no idea what's going on. This girl is gorgeous. A knockout - blonde, 5'10", amazing figure, great personality. At first I just thought I was going through a cycle where I wasn't horny, but then a week went by, and another, and then 3 weeks. We've had about 5 dates. Drinks, dinner, mini golf, movies, etc. We both have a great time together, and with any other chick I would have tried to bang them, but it's almost like I don't want to "ruin" something. I can't put my finger on it. Like we click too much or something. Has anyone had this happen before?

I can lust over a girl in a porn movie, or some random HB 7, but I can't muster up a sexual desire for a girl I'm emotionally attached to.

 

[Tictac]

Fear of success.

 

[Trump]

I have no idea what's going on. This girl is gorgeous. A knockout - blonde, 5'10", amazing figure, great personality. At first I just thought I was going through a cycle where I wasn't horny, but then a week went by, and another, and then 3 weeks. We've had about 5 dates. Drinks, dinner, mini golf, movies, etc. We both have a great time together, and with any other chick I would have tried to bang them, but it's almost like I don't want to "ruin" something. I can't put my finger on it. Like we click too much or something. Has anyone had this happen before?

I can lust over a girl in a porn movie, or some random HB 7, but I can't muster up a sexual desire for a girl I'm emotionally attached to.

Can't relate bro. If the girl is hot I have to have sex with her immediately. If she is ok or average, I will drag out having sex with her for as long as possible. I've even rejected a few girls who were HB 7 and thin and wanted to have sex. I think they were too close to my social group.

Anyway I would bang this chick fast. If you wait too long you will get in the dreaded friend zone.

 

[backbreaker]

I've been there direct result of porn. Cut it out stop masterbating and u will nut a bit looking at.her


When I used to watch porn I once had a girl in my car unzipping my pants and I took her home lol I had another take her shirt.off at my house get in bed s and put her ass in my crotch and I was too nervous to make a move



Its the porn

 

[gravityeyelids]

Porn is probably a factor....but you're probably seeing her as some innocent angel girl that you dont want to corrupt by banging her. Some things for you to think about:

1)This girl is a naturally sexual creature. Roughly half the time she wants you to cuddle with her, talk walks in the park, hold her hand, go for cute little mini-golf dates and have goofy fun with you. The other half of the time she wants you to throw her against the wall, rip her clothes off and fvck the hell out of her tight little pu$$y while you slap her as$ and pull her hair until she screams loud enough for everyone within a half a mile radius to hear how hard she is cumming.

2) If you don't physically escalate to sex soon, you WILL lose this girl and any emotional affection that comes with it. That is the only way you can "ruin" this. Don't be intimidated by what i said above. I;m not saying you've gotta be James Deen. But bang this girl. If you're self-conscious about your performance, dont be. Average sex is better than none at all.

3) Sex drive - not trying to insult you, but your drive might be compromised by a number of things. Easiest ways to boost libido: a) Stop Fapping, b) workout/stretch/yoga (LIFT weights!), c) clean up your diet, take multivitamins, drink tons of water, maybe even consider supplements like MACA, HGW or Zinc.


But i think the bottom line is that you fear you're going to blow it or scare her off by just trying to get in her pants, because thats what every other "doosh" she *****es about tries to do. But tell you what. She bangs those dooshes.

GIRLS ONLY CUDDLE WITH THE DUDES THAT FVCK THEIR BRAINS OUT.

 

[BeDJ]

It's a form of one-itis, you have a good thing going, but you don't want to ruin it by pushing the envelope.

How far have you gone with her?

It was the same exact process for me with my LTR. She was 'different.' I was able to initiate sex after she initiated a handjob and I simply told her I can't come without a condom. I put one on and she hopped on.

I remember you as one of the more experienced posters on here and I don't think it is the porn or sex drive. You are currently operating on a scarcity mindset, some girls will do that to you. It's a game-altering because you're mind is telling you to just 'play' this one different. I wouldn't say she knows that she has the upper hand, but it could be a possibility. You have to invite her over very soon for a desert and drink and simply just go for it. You need to do this. You have to do this. I'm not saying it will work, but it's much better than pandering and seeing how many hoops you must jump through because she is different from all the other women you have dated. Please do it for me and SoSuave.

 

[beatjunkie]

brah. you can't post stuff like that and expect not to be roasted. HB9 and you can't bang? Maannn do some pushups, smoke a cig, get a beer and man the fck up. If you don't smash this one she is gonna be smashed elsewhere. Your choice.

 

[El Payaso]

Everybody is always dating a "HB9" on these forums. Lol.

 

[Echoes]

I tend to think the porn is a contributing factor as well. I have had the same issues in the past.

Don't beat it for a week, don't look at porn, starve your brain of sexual stimulus and you just might want to get it on with her.

And guess what....she wants you to bang her. That thought has helped me in these situations before. I found it to be a turn on. She wants it. She wants to feel lusted after. It makes her feel sexy. She's waiting for your hogan. Give it to her.

Best of luck.

 

[Echoes]

Everybody is always dating a "HB9" on these forums. Lol.

Probably a 9 to him.

 

[Echoes]

brah. you can't post stuff like that and expect not to be roasted. HB9 and you can't bang? Maannn do some pushups, smoke a cig, get a beer and man the fck up.

As harsh as this guy is being, this part....

If you don't smash this one she is gonna be smashed elsewhere. Your choice.

...is absolutely true.

Hot girls get horny too. She's not some innocent little flower (unless she's saving herself for marriage, in which case....run)

She likes the hog, and she's gunna need it soon. If she's as hot as you say, she should have no trouble getting it when she wants it. And if she ain't getting it from you......