Niq Nova The Mighty
Don Juan
I've been around the site for a good 2 years now, and I've learned a lot. Not only about women, but about myself. I learned to actively seek exactly what it is that I want. I have come to realize what I'll do as a career based on the confidence that this site has taught me to have. I am leaving in July for bootcamp, when I join the Marines.
Many women in my school find this to be very brave, and have told me so. That is not what I am here to talk about however. I am here to talk about the standards a man should have. I understand it's been talked about a lot, but I need my story's answer, not someone else's.
I am still in highschool mind you, but this has little to do with Highschool, so I doubt it should be in that forum. Plus I need answers from people who know what they are talking about.
Attractive women that I come across, and talk to are without a doubt, some of the most gorgeous girls I've ever seen. The body is definitely there, but I always have the same problem, and that is with the mind. These kind of women bore me. They very rarely grasp my attention with what they say, because it lacks any real content. I find myself just looking at them, and ignoring what they say.
Women who are interesting, tend to fall in the 6 or 7 range for me. So now I have to ask, do I lower the standards for looks, and let the personality of the girl make up for it? Or do I stick with the attractive girls, and hope to God that some are interesting to me? It seems like they all do the same stuff. They party, and hang out with friends. But who doesn't? It's the same thing over and over again. I find a girl who is a 6 though, and she does interesting things, like horseback riding, and sports.
These interesting girls have the ability to make me laugh, but the attractive ones, they do not have this attribute. I personally would rather have a good time with an interesting girl, than get some sex from an attractive girl. It's not that I don't like sex, I think it's one of the greatest things, but if I can't connect with the person, it's meaningless. So I ask you, fellow DJ's, what do you think I should do? Because I have a couple interesting girls in mind who aren't too bad to look at either. I also have girls who are drop dead gorgeous that I could be approaching. I am looking for a relationship before I leave for bootcamp, so it has to be something memorable, not just great sex.
Many women in my school find this to be very brave, and have told me so. That is not what I am here to talk about however. I am here to talk about the standards a man should have. I understand it's been talked about a lot, but I need my story's answer, not someone else's.
I am still in highschool mind you, but this has little to do with Highschool, so I doubt it should be in that forum. Plus I need answers from people who know what they are talking about.
Attractive women that I come across, and talk to are without a doubt, some of the most gorgeous girls I've ever seen. The body is definitely there, but I always have the same problem, and that is with the mind. These kind of women bore me. They very rarely grasp my attention with what they say, because it lacks any real content. I find myself just looking at them, and ignoring what they say.
Women who are interesting, tend to fall in the 6 or 7 range for me. So now I have to ask, do I lower the standards for looks, and let the personality of the girl make up for it? Or do I stick with the attractive girls, and hope to God that some are interesting to me? It seems like they all do the same stuff. They party, and hang out with friends. But who doesn't? It's the same thing over and over again. I find a girl who is a 6 though, and she does interesting things, like horseback riding, and sports.
These interesting girls have the ability to make me laugh, but the attractive ones, they do not have this attribute. I personally would rather have a good time with an interesting girl, than get some sex from an attractive girl. It's not that I don't like sex, I think it's one of the greatest things, but if I can't connect with the person, it's meaningless. So I ask you, fellow DJ's, what do you think I should do? Because I have a couple interesting girls in mind who aren't too bad to look at either. I also have girls who are drop dead gorgeous that I could be approaching. I am looking for a relationship before I leave for bootcamp, so it has to be something memorable, not just great sex.