"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Standard first date question

eastenders

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What does one say when a girl asks "do you think I'm attractive/beautiful/good looking then?" on a first date?

how heavy, ****y or light should be answer be?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sam3083

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Argh! YOU have to figure that out! (I just made a post like this, lol).

Your perception of a '****y + funny' line will differ to ours anyway. Plus, the way you deliver it will effect how she takes it.

Deliver the line, assess how it went, learn from it, repeat. < Keep doing that unitl your a total pimp!
 

aldaris

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you are acting like a chump. you should be the dominant party. don't let the hor manipulate the conversation. shake your head at her. roll your eyes when she says something. tell her about that time you speared a lion in the amazon. you think she knows that there are no lions in the amazon? of course she doesn't!

the idea is to make her feel unworthy of being with you. you are probably in an anglophile country. so make fat jokes. everyone is a porker in anglophile countries. walk her past a swimsuit store and tell her that if she works at it she might be able to wear a bikini by august.

here is a hint. grunt when you eat. i know it sounds disgusting, but chicks dig the primal stuff. order something with a bone and gnaw away on the bone like a wild animal. see, deep down she is looking for a man to knock her up. we are nothing more than animals with bad habits. remember that.
 

ZenGodMod

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Honesty

Deliver your answer with honesty. Just tell her what you what made you want to go on a date with her in the first place.

Could be as simple as you just wanted to get laid, to you find her the most amazing thing in the world.

If you are gonna tell you just wanted to get laid, you better be ****y about it.:woo:

With honesty your brain doesn't have to think a million things and sweat over it.

And don't worry about her dominating any conversation, only you can let yourself slip and only you can fall into her traps, because only you can let control go.
 
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