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SS work without confidence?

MackJr

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could you walk up to someone without much confidence, say the speed seduction phrases and have them fall madly in love with you right there?
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Dell SkyCat

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No
 

Walden

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SS is a tool , it gets girls in a state of mind that supports them acting in a manner you want them to.

If I said to you "So Skycat have you ever wanted to SET YOUR PET CAT MITSY ON FIRE AND THROW HER THROUGH THE WINDOW OF YOUR RABBIS CACTUS TERRAIUM? Now how would that FEEL to FEEL THOSE FEELINGS?"

It wouldn't happen would it.

SS is the DJs equivalent of a left cross , use it to set up for that big right hook that'll clinch the match for you , but don't try and rely on it alone.
 

Ice Cold

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Nope

You need rapport to run SS.

The four stages are:
find, meet, attract, close

SS helps with attract only. If you don't have the confidence, you won't reach the attract phase
 
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