Hi, I've been experimenting with ss and using patterns. I'm getting a bit discouraged. I've memorized a couple and i've tried them on maybe 5 chicks. First of all I don't really know how to close afterwards and secondly I found out i freaked out one of them through a friend lol. So i'm not sure whether to keep trying to master it or give up because maybe i'm doing more harm than good, u know?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
SS patterns
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
oreo_renegade
Master Don Juan
May I recomend searching for vronski's lessons on this website.
That man got me started with NLP.
Also, once you get the basics of vronski down, you can searc K-a-z-a-a (it bleeped it out for some reason?) for more NLP, type in "Ross Jeffries" or "Neuro-Linguistic Programming" and you should get some results.
If you want some help then type the convesations here, and I would be glad to point anything out for you.
Also practice talking to yourself in a seductive voice, just until you are smooth enough.
With SS mostly you want to go for the phuck close, but you can "leave her wanting more" saying something like "oh, i just remmebered I had a dentist appointment in 30min, I better go, but give me your number and I will call you up sometime"
Just keep playing around with it and you will become a master. However if you dont really find the field interesting there is plenty of other ways to get chicks
, not neccessarily with NLP.
That man got me started with NLP.
Also, once you get the basics of vronski down, you can searc K-a-z-a-a (it bleeped it out for some reason?) for more NLP, type in "Ross Jeffries" or "Neuro-Linguistic Programming" and you should get some results.
If you want some help then type the convesations here, and I would be glad to point anything out for you.
Also practice talking to yourself in a seductive voice, just until you are smooth enough.
With SS mostly you want to go for the phuck close, but you can "leave her wanting more" saying something like "oh, i just remmebered I had a dentist appointment in 30min, I better go, but give me your number and I will call you up sometime"
Just keep playing around with it and you will become a master. However if you dont really find the field interesting there is plenty of other ways to get chicks
, not neccessarily with NLP.have u had any concrete success with nlp, i mean picking up chicks, phuck closes etc. with nlp? Or do u just find it interesting.
Like I said, I find it interesting but I am wondering whether other people have had practical success with it.
Like I said, I find it interesting but I am wondering whether other people have had practical success with it.
NLP alone won't give u *closes... u tried how many time?? just 5... i hav like dozen times all times no results but then it hit me what the hell i m doing wrong...
just keep trying and hav faith man u'll see the difference... i hav used NLP in lots of cases dealing with phobias, bad habbits.. almost everything... now i even make patterns on fly... English is not my first language so i need to pattern in my own language(it can be really hard u know). and i hav got good results...
WhoAmI
just keep trying and hav faith man u'll see the difference... i hav used NLP in lots of cases dealing with phobias, bad habbits.. almost everything... now i even make patterns on fly... English is not my first language so i need to pattern in my own language(it can be really hard u know). and i hav got good results...
WhoAmI
oreo_renegade
Master Don Juan
Ive had success
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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aletterhome
Guest
try any Richard Bandler and John Grinder book. They make this stuff up.
NLP wil get results but it needs to be used, as ONE PART of the whole sarge. Dont just rely on patterning.