SS in the workplace: Advanced please respond

[irunthegame]

There is a really cute girl at my professional atmosphere job that I want to attempt some SS techniques on. Here is the problem: she has a boyfriend (although I catch her looking often and as of late she has become very playful with me), I am in a relationship and everyone in the office knows it, I am worried about the potential of sexual harrasment charges.

I have just read Vronski's SS 1.0 on Weasel Phrase + Command Verb + Desired State...and developing phrases and I would like to try it on her...but what are some phrases that are subtly sexual that could be played off if someone else heard it in the office?

Also are there anyother techniques that would be appropriate and effective for this I guess, "sneak" environment?

 

[Sir_Chancealot]

Not to beat a dead horse, but Ross covers this EXACT situation in his home study course.

 

[Vronski]

Originally posted by Sir_Chancealot:
Not to beat a dead horse, but Ross covers this EXACT situation in his home study course.

Chance, did you make a deal with Jeffries??? He gives you the course for free, but you are obligated to talk about it in every post.

my professional atmosphere job .... she has a boyfriend .... I am in a relationship ... everyone in the office knows it ... worried about the potential of sexual harrasment charges

I think its not rational. If you want a relationship with her, then its too hard. Too many obstacles.

If you want a guinea pig to experiment on, then you dont take someone who could sue you. You pick someone whom you'll never see again at a coffe shop.

Another problem: you can direct her mind to romance and trance, you just use softer and more polite desired states. But when it works, everyone will be able to see that you have something going on between each other. Her body language will show it, your body language will have to show attraction for her to feel in trance, plus you'll be sitting close to each other for at least 20 minutes.

The only way noone will notice is if you date her outside of the workplace.

I wouldn't do it if I were you.

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_-=/Comrade Vronski\=-_

 

[Awkward]

I run the game:

Don't test those phrases you have done, there is SO much more to SS than just words. You must have the tonality, the right tempo of speech, pauses and all that. And just using "Have you ever experienced utter disgust?" may not be too good cause you are not linking the phrase to you. Wait to VSSM 2 comes and wait for the live exercises. I don't think you are ready to test it yet.

Think about your reputation, you don't want to come around as a cheater, such a stain will never get washed away. Be careful.

--- Awkward

 

[irunthegame]

Thanks for the advice guys let me ask a follow up question. I have been reading through RJ's Ebook on how to pick up married women. He concentrates on making sure the woman has the correct mindset so that in essence, she realizes that you are a good screw fantasy type but doesn't become to attached. Now utilizing this same concept for this girl in the office, is there a way I can get her to perceive myself as just a good screw type, and exciting as opposed to making her fall head over heals in attraction? Can I make it so that she has something invested in keeping it quiet also?