"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SS before SS???

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I was browsing through the "Anything Else" forum today (or maybe it was the tips forum, I forget) and noticed the following article below. I checked it out briefly and this looks almost identical to the stuff RJ teaches, except it is dated 1994.

It's worth checking out.... I'd be interested in hearing what others think.


blacksun
Master Don Juan posted 09-01-2000 06:56 PM
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check this link out : http://www.e-onlinepublishing.com/chemistry/
there you can download the E-Book
"The Secrets to Creating Chemistry" (63 pages)
which uses lot of NLP and some patterns/SS etc.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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