"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Squint Your Eyes And Get All The Girls

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When with this girl, momentarily give a slight scrutinizing expression Then , if and when you are ready to seal the deal or win her warmth , morph it into a slight smile of acceptance
and then the woman is yours it feels as if she becomes " a blob of putty in the seducers hands " to quote LEIL LOWNDES in HOW TO INSTANTLY CONNECT WITH ANYONE page 6( MCGRAW HILL 2009 )

BENICIO DEL TORO does it also and he gets all the girls
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ALPHAROMEO said:
When with this girl, momentarily give a slight scrutinizing expression Then , if and when you are ready to seal the deal or win her warmth , morph it into a slight smile of acceptance
and then the woman is yours it feels as if she becomes " a blob of putty in the seducers hands " to quote LEIL LOWNDES in HOW TO INSTANTLY CONNECT WITH ANYONE page 6( MCGRAW HILL 2009 )

BENICIO DEL TORO does it also and he gets all the girls
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I wish you had better English because I'm interested in this idea..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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whoa that's good but I won't have the balls to try it on a girl
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why not it's easy, I do exagratted faces all the time when im in "set", however a "trick" I learned when you approach a set intially, smile like a mother****er!!!

it works
 
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Smile like a jacka$$ or stare out the window with the squint eastwood face going on
 
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Now that I think about it...squinting with your eyes and having a mysterious grin on your face works magic. For example, if you see a girl across the room and catch her eyes, squint and smile a lil and see how she reacts. Most likely she will smile. I used to flirt this way a lot a few years ago and it worked. I found it easier to attract girls with my body language / facial expressions / kino then with what I said. Actions definitely speak louder than words and it really won't matter what you say if you're attracting her physically. I've been in a slump lately - I'm going to start flirting like I used to and see how it works out.

This also reminds of another thing I used to do. Lets say if I'm talking to a girl...I'll kino on and off and say random things like "you see that sexy girl over there (pick out some fat, old, or ugly girl)...I want you to hook me up". Guarantee you it'll make her laugh and immediately tease her for making fun of your choice in girls. Or you could also tell her you're going to set her up with a stud...and pickout some weird looking guy. This is all done in a jokingly way and lightens up the mood. This will also make her more attracted to you because it'll show her you're playful. I'm glad you brought this topic up because it has reminded me of ways I used to naturally flirt...mainly by being playful.
 
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guys ask the strangest Qs
" if you re a asian
" if you are a martian

what else

in any case ASIANS surely have the ability to SQUINT:crackup:
 
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I've never heard of this 'squint your eyes and smile' thing.
I've heard of 'squint your eyes, pout your lips, and look mean', but I don't mess around with doing faces.
If it works for anybody, let us know. If only it were that easy - make a face, instant attraction! Maybe if you made it into a joke it could be funny?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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well i am a teacher

iN the past i ve had various studENTS on various occasions who seemed to be in doubt of my teaching ability
they looked glum standoffish with their eyes SQUINTED
i d do anyhting to get a positive reaction from them ( seeking approval i suppose ) i d crack a joke introduvce an offbeat explanation about this or that and they started to chuckle
i kept it up in the same vein for thee rest of the lesson
THEY ACCEPTED ME §§§§§§§§
 
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a couple of years i had this girl friend i was very much in love with

well she played this" sullen look and smile game with me "( the squinting game ) !!!
we would have a wonderful evening together with plenty of lovemaking then she d go home to her mom

the following day she looked all glum and serious and businesslike as if nothing had happened i was in a state i thought " she s lost interest " i felt so down " a bit later she d smile at me and i was even more in love then

WAS SHE CONSCIOUSLY OR UNCONS PLAYING GAMES WITH ME ?
 
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