"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Spring Break Bootcamp, Day 2

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Spring Break Bootcamp, Day 2

5- Hey whats up/whats up.
5-Excuse me, do you know what time it is?
5- Hey do you know where Sears/Footlocker/etc (depending where you are)?
5-Hey, do you know when the mall/library/etc closes? or Hey guys, do you know a good place to eat around here?

If you have one of your own use it.
Total: 20 openers

Notice how this is building up to more words in each questions.  This is just a short convo (less than 30 secs) just to get used to talking to strangers.  Make sure to start off low and built up, this will get you to see how there is nothing scary about talking to strangers.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dude your pm folder is full... neways my reply was i'll send you all the bootcamp results when i'm back from Dubai... I'm planning to **** loads of chics especially since I'm goin' wit' my pimp friend from senegal
 

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Done, done, done and done.

I am broke so I opened up random women asking "how are you doing" than broke off to ask them for 50 cents towards a cup of coffee. First one said no, the rest gave me just enough for a single cup.

I approached some more and asked them for the time. I joked about my internal clock being a few minutes off and I needed to calibrate, got a few good laughs.

I asked how to get to one of the local stores here, most of the girls I had approached had seen me around. They asked if I was "blah blah blah's son" or if my name was "so and so" and I shrugged it off and asked why they thought so. When they knew that I knew how to get to the store(I know the town like the back of my hand(eww, whats that?) I asked them which method of transportation was best, crawling was at the top of the list.

I asked a few more girls when the library closes. Surprisingly, none of them knew. I used it to my advantage to tell them the excellent opportunites that were available at the library, and which library's there are in town. Hehe, I used to be a library sarger, so I know all the librarians in town and their librarian sciences, so I answered the questions they had.

20 approaches in 45 minutes, more than two minutes of convo per sarge.

Note: I didn't get any numbers, I never have:D Can't wait until the sarge requires number grabs:D
 
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