Spin on a common IOI?

[tsmith2334]

Is THIS considered an IOI?

to quote pook:

-Interrogation (Yes, interrogation. A girl may like you but are unsure that you like them (Girls fear rejection more then us guys. Remember this!). They'll get their friends to scout out the truth. You'll be asked by her friend(s) "Do you like anyone here?" or "What is your ideal woman?" What you answer will be reported back to her. Usually the girls that employ this devious reconaissance tactic that even the CIA would be proud of are the more shy type.

But I've noticed that the higher the interest a girl has, the more shy she becomes [around you]).

What I want to know is, what if the girl asks you directly? For example, "So, how are the ladies treating you?" etc.

I would figure this would be a pretty strong IOI, though you could also argue that it's a friendzone type statement.

Pook's advice implies the girl would be too scared to ask, but I wonder, is that always the case? If they were interested and confident wouldn't they just ask you directly?

 

[LoneSilver]

POOK Quote: But I've noticed that the higher the interest a girl has, the more shy she becomes [around you]).

This is so true.

LoneSilver

 

[tsmith2334]

POOK Quote: But I've noticed that the higher the interest a girl has, the more shy she becomes [around you]).

This is so true.

LoneSilver

That doesn't really seem to mesh with everyone else I've read! I read on this site that even young girls posses the ability to know exactly want and be confident about getting it. In fact, that seems to be were women and AFCs differ.

This just doesn't strike me as what I'd expect to hear, but who knows, Pook has way more experience then I do.