"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Speed and Stamina

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I want to get fast!

This is my last of high school lacrosse and I hope to be among the fastest on the team. As of right now, I'm among the slowest (3 or 4 people away from being the slowest runner on the team) but I have 3 months to build my speed and stamina. Conditioning starts tomorrow after school and we have a list of workouts to do (which I won't know until tomorrow). What should I add to these workouts so that I can start improving my stamina and speed?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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lacross is similar to soccer i take it right?

look mate . in sports like lacross, football,soccer,volleyball etc...
what really matters is "skill". you need to develop your playing skills.speed and stamina dont really matter for a highschooler.
so if you wanna be better ,improve your sport specific skills (passing,tackles etc) (reference : supertraining )

however since you said that you are slow and wanna get faqster on your feet ill recommend a few exercises.

calf raises : the old school calf raise with a barbell. stronger calves improve your explosiveness which you need to tackle an incoming player etc...
bigger calves DO NOT increase your drag so dont worry about it and tell ur coach to stfu.

plyometrics. explosiveness and speed. use a few plyo boxes and do a few routines you can get off the internet. just stay away from any book that has an endorsement by "the national strength and conditioning association" that **** sucks.lol

squats : there was a fvcking study that i think i read in a book by zatsiorsky, in the study powerlifters bested olympic sprinters in the first 10 seconds of a 400 m sprint due to the fact that powerlifters have more explosive short burst power.

for conditioning try tabata method sprints or maybe sled dragging.
i suggest the tabata method.google it.
 

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Plyometrics and stretching. You'd be surprised how much faster you'll get by increasing your range of motion.
 
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