"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by bbestar
I have met some new residents here in Richmond VA, from Cali.

Compared to whats in Cali, theres basically nothing here in richmond va.
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my ex lives in richmond (of all places) now, she tells me that little rock is actually probably more jumpin on a weekend night than richmond..

little rock, for it's size, actually offers some things to do, if you know where to look

Just that little rock is so damn ass backwards... The biggest, most hopin club down here not only doesn't advertise, YOU CAN'T FIND IT unless someone tells you where it is.. it is litearrly an old abandoned building behind a warehouse that's vaccant

you have to hear about **** though the grapevine, alot of the places you can't even tell they are clubs unless you know what they are..

One place, a really hoppin place really any night of the week utnil like 6 in the morning, I didn't even know was a club until like 3 months ago.. and I get my clothes dry cleaned right next door and I have since I was in jr high!

"Damn, I always wondered what went on in there"
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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