"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sound like a good first date idea? Got one better?

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jeffthechef

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imma get thie girl's number this friday or next..prolly next because i haven't even talked to her yet haha
that's one of the things about this site that worries me...i've felt so confident these few months and i've gotten much more action but now i'm thinking i can get this girl's number without having said a word yet...BUT my gut, which is 95% right, tells me she's interested...

ANYWAYS...heres my plan..note: i dont have a car
Meet her at this park and play basketball. I'm pretty good and i'm sure i can get a lot of kino in. Then go eat at some casual restaurant. Find a nice, quiet place to sit and talk.

OR

Hang around at a mall. But i'm worried it's not very active.

OR

stroll around at a swap meet then go iceskating cause it's across the street then eat somewhere there..lots of restaurants

Or since she can drive..She's older
Is there something better?

Got any good first date ideas?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SomethingClever

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Those are grand ideas. Just make sure to have fun, be sexual, and take action.
 
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Triple T

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As long as your having a blast ANY DATE is good.
Just relax and HAVE FUN!

Those all sound great. Don't plan the date out too much tho, nothing ever goes according to plan.

Good luck! :up:
 
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