"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Axcell

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Although I love some of Mystery's material as well as many other dating gurus, you can't compare the two.
For certain concepts, I would definetly turn to an e-book from a dating guru! But what do you do when you need advice about a certain situation? If you tried an approach and it didn't work and you want to know why? Those books can only help you so much, and thanks to this site, there are tons of DJ's that are willing to help you out or tell you where you went wrong.
It's very true that a majority of the member's posting here may give advice that is incorrect, but for the most part, who listens to just one person? I wait for a couple of posts to appear and see what all 3-4 of those DJ's had to say about the mater, and what common ground they achieved. If all 3 of them are stating the same thing, chances are that it is more likely to be correct.

As for the part that some members post advice and have not even kissed a girl, I honestly could not care less. Quoted from a member by the name of Bright: "It doesn't matter what his game is in real life, its his advice that helps other people with their game. So it doesn't matter if he gets no girls or all of the girls, he at least knows what hes talking about online and helps share what he's learned with everyone else."

But you do have some valid information in your post, I don't mean to bash at you. Sorry to see that this will be one of your last posts in the forum, hope that it doesn't come to be so.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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