SoSuave DJ's I'm Lookin' for time sensitive help on something I WANT!

[Dante420]

I know some on here advocate against valuing looks but that goes against my DNA. No that doesn't mean I see a dime as a scarce resource, I believe beauty is common (matter fact that last phrase comes up in my vernacular. This isn't the only girl I talk to but this girl is my age with similar interests and is drop dead gorgeous. She ditched 2 plans on me in 3 weeks and I couldn't make it one other time.

THAT's 3 TIMES trying to make plans and them not working out, how do I approach what I want without coming off as needy?

Here's the situation tho: I want something, and the type of person I think is truly successful at this stuff can pick out a target and get that because it's what HE WANTS!


So that's where I'm at. A lot of the things you guys do run off a format, such as no contact. So I'm not asking for no cookie-cutter game handed to me on a platter, I'm asking for a FORMAT that can be used to handle this situation and get a girl who blew off your plans twice in 3 weeks.

 

[Alextheegreat]

Move on bud! Three times? seriously and your still hanging on? I would just say... NEXT.

 

[bukowski_merit]

Unfortunately, there's not a whole lot that can be done...
She already had low interest level in you and not much respect...
That you're still around after her doing that to you 3 times only makes matters worse!

The only thing i can think of that could be like your last chance shot would be to either game her friends; or to go somewhere she is and pay her little attention and flirt (or even leave with) other girls...

but as for now - to this girl - you're just another guy who sticks around for her abuse.

 

[Jhcl4000]

You're a senior here, bro... You should already know what to do in this particular situation. The funny thing is, I am in the same situation. Girl blew me off twice in around 3 weeks this last couple months. Except in my situation the girl seemed to have a REALLY high interest level and we went on one date, then she mind-fvcked me. Anyways, as hard as it may seem since you like her, you need to cut off contact and move on. Why act needy and be a doormat for a chick you're never going to get anywhere with?

 

[Dante420]

True, ditching me really displays low qualities. Oh well, thanks for the help.