Soo, now that its summer...

[saturos]

I didn't manage to really get with the girl i wanted before the year ended, but i still think she's into me.
Anyways, i asked her if she wanted to chill a few days ago on Saturday (yesterday), and she said she was going to a friend's sweet 16. I obviously still want to hang out with her, but if i keep asking her i think i'd come off as annoying and desperate. How long should i wait/go about this?

Gracias.

 

[jeffthechef]

here's what i was thinking

you've asked her to hang before...so she knows you're somewhat interested
she was busy
NOW...there's probably some days when she's free
BUT...she hasn't called you (assuming she has your number)

see where i'm goning....wouldn't she have called you up by now?

BUTTT..there's always the possibility that she wants you to ask becuase she doesn't want to sound desperate, because she's the girl

SO...how long?...i would probably give it a week or two...i mean, you are pursuing other girls too right?...don't begin to overthink things...she's only one girl

The thing is, most guys, who don't get much action, begin grasping on to any girl who even says hi...that's when the whole afc part comes back....keep things going on with various girls and you won't worry about things like this...you want to be busy enough to the point where calling her becomes a hassle in your schedule...but i'm sure you're not that deep into this

 

[saturos]

Yea i'm pursuing another girl as well and i'm really busy this summer, so its not a big deal.
Thing is that i should have been able to get this girl, but i f*cked up in the sense that i waited too long to do anything about it.
Whatever though. I think i'm just not going to bother texting her, and just wait for her to contact me.

On a completely random note, does anyone here do parkour? Me and a buddy want to start but its rather overwhelming >.> I'm really fit but i just don't have any idea how to start.

 

[S.Y.L]

I didn't accomplish anything in terms of getting girls, but I'm getting really, really close. I don't consider myself an AFC anymore, I hardly ever say or act anything AFC like at all anymore, my alpha ness went up like 1000% this year. Not to mention I've gained 20 pounds of muscle

 

[Analyzeit]

Why you not invited to sweet 16?? or was it just a girls thing or something??

that was just first question i asked myself lol

anyway it no promblem listen to jeff lol

 

[saturos]

I didn't accomplish anything in terms of getting girls, but I'm getting really, really close. I don't consider myself an AFC anymore, I hardly ever say or act anything AFC like at all anymore, my alpha ness went up like 1000% this year. Not to mention I've gained 20 pounds of muscle

It was someone i didn't know's sweet 16.
This chick is a grade below me.

And speak of the devil, she just texted me a few ago.