"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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soo many 'tests' soo little time...

organizedconfusion

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:up: okay,after the night has closed..i have been bombared with tests all night long...from down right b!tches to girls seeking attention.First off, i have been coming into the scene firmly establishing that i am the prize and MY attention is worth something..not hers..from early on in the night, i have had half a dozen girls bidding for my attention, and i didn't even pay any real attention to them ...sure the usual C/F routine but nothing more, and they were rubbing my head and rubbing up on me..i still paid no attention and acted if i was the shizzy...i am still trying to perfect the technique of being the prize but it's kinda exuasting..i have to really put myself on display and use ALOT of body language and sub-communications..alot of girls respond and i don't even think they have any idea why really...like david d says 'attraction isn't a choice..' and i am starting to believe it...anyways, there where alot of b1tches tonight, alot of 'fvck yous' as i tried to friggin' pass them by, one said 'excuse you' and all i said was 'thanks' and a ****y smile..all she could do was stare in amazment,because she didn't get to me..i could care less..i was on a mission and i don't give a fvck about no b1tches!:moon: anyways, it was a cool night- talked to some girls,get them rubbing up on me and bidding for my attention ,so all i can say is..next weekend!!!! saaaawwweeeeeeet!!! i had fun so i can't complain! just 'do it' get in the field and enjoy yourself is the only tip i can give..because i know i am having a good time!!!!!!:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup::up:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Good stuff, now there's a guy who goes out there and practices what he learns and gets experience. Go out and practice more and your confidence will increase, and your game will imrpove. You will behave the right way with women naturally without even thinking about it.

But I'm telling ya, once you get good with women...you will want to go out every night lol.
 

organizedconfusion

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more tests/AMOGs/itchy head...

i have only really been going out with 'intention' since last summer, but only since the last few months have i began to really incorperate the things i learn..the weird thing that i learned yesterday,or maybe it's only been braught to my attention..is TESTING.i never really knew what it meant when people test eachother..and i got tested ALOT,even by dudes trying to AMOG me..i have had guys tried to AMOG me all night..i just stood my ground and gave them a big brat pitt smile and patt them on the back like we've been best friends and it totally changed the vibe and smoothed things out (hey,i said pat them on the shoulder ,this ain't no 'bareback mountain' over here...at least buy me a drink to warm me up..shheeeh!!).But there were these class A witches with a capital B and good good were they horrid! They just kept mean muggin' and all they could do was stare as i walked pass them unaffected by their b!tchiness and their guy friends didn't do jack...they just stood right along watching.Anyways,why worry about the bad apples right? as long as i know how to totally deflect the BS then it's all good i say..there are way too many psychos out there to deal with,why deal with them at all? anyways,i was getting 'buying signals' all night long- but i chose to play it James Bond style and just chill and let the girls flock to me..well, not excatly flock but they were attracted..my head feels itchy from all them girls rubbing on it all night..what is it about a bald head that makes girls go crazy? and why does it itch? :whistle: this weekend was pretty tight :rockon: them girls sure were cuties...
 
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