"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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something You guys need to get....

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If she don't wanna, Love the right way she aint gonna!
it aint where she's at it's where she wanna be!!


if she dont want you man, she got it like that. man it aint even gotta be like that. she be callling that other dude back, making out with him, and disrespecting you. you've been punk'd. she dont like you, she just wants you around for comfort for her own insecure self. never put up with a cheater

if she wanna go she'l be gone. i dont know how many times i tried, and cried, trying to love someone who didn't love me.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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I'm try to decode your gangsta talk... You basicly saying if she don't like you. Let it be and move on?
 

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It's lyrics from a song by Keyshia Cole and Missy Elliot, if case anyone doesn't understand at first.
 

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Ganondorf said:
If she don't wanna, Love the right way she aint gonna!
it aint where she's at it's where she wanna be!!


if she dont want you man, she got it like that. man it aint even gotta be like that. she be callling that other dude back, making out with him, and disrespecting you. you've been punk'd. she dont like you, she just wants you around for comfort for her own insecure self. never put up with a cheater

if she wanna go she'l be gone. i dont know how many times i tried, and cried, trying to love someone who didn't love me.
I just got dump today and this post helped. Thanks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ya you gotta luv advice from gangsta rap lyrics..........like they never have any contraversy surrounding their dating escapades.......PFFT!!

YO HOMEBOY......DEYS ONA COMPLETLY DIFFERENT LEVEL DEN USE IS.....R U FEELIN ME...........WORD!!!

okay translation-people who are in the spotlight are perceived differrently than the rest of us average foolish mortals. They tend to attract different wannabe women.........so they can do outlandish antics and get away with it.

NUFF SAID.........
 
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