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something interesting that happend to me at the club.

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well I went to the club with some friends, like a week ago the most crazy thing happened , ill put to you this way it was a bad night , the girls were stuck up, no nothing , it was like the bottom of the ninth bases loaded and 2 outs and the team needs one more home run to win the game, it was about 5 us my 3 friends went inside the club and decided on giving up trying to pick up on chicks so they started to get drunk , my other friend and me weren't giving up so we decided to split up to double our chances instead of a pilot and a wing man . so like 20 minutes passed, i got nothing i usually don't smoke but i wanted a cigarette so I went to the smoking area at the club and my friend was there he somehow managed to strike up a bs convo with some chick , so i decided am gonna be nice and not ****block, so I was leaving; the girls friends started showing so i went and did my thang ,one of the girls friend stayed she wasnt talking to me at all. I would try to make conversation and she would blow me off ,then my friend told me to stay cuz he was getting some good rapport on the chick ,so as i was sitting there the girls friend left and another one showed up , the one that showed was a 8 I was like holy hell ineed to do something she started talking to her friend and ****block so her friend blew her off .we were all sitting down at this small table and there were no more chairs left i got up to make a phone call and she took my spot when i came back she had left and I took my chair back, she then tells me in a ***** voice

she8: "hey you took my chair"!
me : and wat u want me to do ?
she8: "I want my chair back "
me :"well there is a chair at that other table(other chair must of been like 7 feet away and must of weight like 30 pounds)
why don't you go get it because am not leaving my spot "
she8: your an *******
me : oh well am still not leaving my spot

she8:(like 20 minutes later she pulls the chair closer to me and introduces her self)" hi wats your name?"
me : my name is _____ wats your name ?
she8: my name is april
me: well nice to meet you april
she8: hey can i tell you something ?
me:yeah wats up
she8: hey i really liked the way you told me to get that chair , I really like a man who is in charge , because any other guy would just gave me their chair but you told me to f*** off in a way and I really liked that
me:(speechless)
she8:hey do you like to smoke?
me:yes
she8: well hey I would love to hang out with you and smoke out.I would ask for your number but i forgot my cell phone but heres my phone number.###-###-####
me:eek:k ill ttyl and boom I left with my friend.

the best part is the number wasn't a fake so I smoked out with her and had sex like 2 days later

has anything like this ever happened to any of you guys?

and could this be considered a new club tactic?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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she8: hey i really liked the way you told me to get that chair , I really like a man who is in charge , because any other guy would just gave me their chair but you told me to f*** off in a way and I really liked that
Gotta be honest, that sounds you like you just made it up.

But if really happened to you, lucky you. I HIGHLY doubt too many other guys would have heard a chick compliment them THAT directly on their manly demeanour.
 

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decadentdestruction said:
well I went to the club with some friends, like a week ago the most crazy thing happened , ill put to you this way it was a bad night , the girls were stuck up, no nothing , it was like the bottom of the ninth bases loaded and 2 outs and the team needs one more home run to win the game, it was about 5 us my 3 friends went inside the club and decided on giving up trying to pick up on chicks so they started to get drunk , my other friend and me weren't giving up so we decided to split up to double our chances instead of a pilot and a wing man . so like 20 minutes passed, i got nothing i usually don't smoke but i wanted a cigarette so I went to the smoking area at the club and my friend was there he somehow managed to strike up a bs convo with some chick , so i decided am gonna be nice and not ****block, so I was leaving; the girls friends started showing so i went and did my thang ,one of the girls friend stayed she wasnt talking to me at all. I would try to make conversation and she would blow me off ,then my friend told me to stay cuz he was getting some good rapport on the chick ,so as i was sitting there the girls friend left and another one showed up , the one that showed was a 8 I was like holy hell ineed to do something she started talking to her friend and ****block so her friend blew her off .we were all sitting down at this small table and there were no more chairs left i got up to make a phone call and she took my spot when i came back she had left and I took my chair back, she then tells me in a ***** voice

she8: "hey you took my chair"!
me : and wat u want me to do ?
she8: "I want my chair back "
me :"well there is a chair at that other table(other chair must of been like 7 feet away and must of weight like 30 pounds)
why don't you go get it because am not leaving my spot "
she8: your an *******
me : oh well am still not leaving my spot

she8:(like 20 minutes later she pulls the chair closer to me and introduces her self)" hi wats your name?"
me : my name is _____ wats your name ?
she8: my name is april
me: well nice to meet you april
she8: hey can i tell you something ?
me:yeah wats up
she8: hey i really liked the way you told me to get that chair , I really like a man who is in charge , because any other guy would just gave me their chair but you told me to f*** off in a way and I really liked that
me:(speechless)
she8:hey do you like to smoke?
me:yes
she8: well hey I would love to hang out with you and smoke out.I would ask for your number but i forgot my cell phone but heres my phone number.###-###-####
me:eek:k ill ttyl and boom I left with my friend.

the best part is the number wasn't a fake so I smoked out with her and had sex like 2 days later

has anything like this ever happened to any of you guys?

and could this be considered a new club tactic?
Yea I mentioned this in reply to another post a while ago. When you stand up to a chick verbally and mentally, the attraction for you grows, cos she sees as a leader, someone who can dominate etc.

Its the same with guys, if someone insults you/tries to tool you, you stand up and their respect (not attraction lol) goes up, as they see you as equal to or above them.

Thats the reason "nice guys finish last". You deffo wouldn't have got laid if you gave up your seat. Nice work man
 

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she8: hey i really liked the way you told me to get that chair , I really like a man who is in charge , because any other guy would just gave me their chair but you told me to f*** off in a way and I really liked that


danielzxc said:
Gotta be honest, that sounds you like you just made it up.

But if really happened to you, lucky you. I HIGHLY doubt too many other guys would have heard a chick compliment them THAT directly on their manly demeanour.

Yeah, I have to agree. Something's not quite right here, bros.
Usually they may not be THAT forthcoming, and instead maybe give you a light punch in the arm or abs and giggle when you've negged them or busted them in some way.
Never heard such a long detailed sentence like that.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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something like this has never happened to me before am not much of clubbing person am more of metal show or backyard party guy..., so I wanted to post this experience i had, whenever I write something I like to write my sentences like if I were analyzing the situation , thats why am so detailed I don't like BS so I don't like to write BS specially in Place like this , I have been coming to this site since 2004 I have alot of respect for those that are members even if their new to the site . this experience in the club that happened to me was a 1st , so I thought I would have been a good idea to post it so I can get feed back from you guys ,so If I got the chance to get laid and smoke out at the same time, then hell yeah good for me right?, and if you don't believe me thats kool..... to those that replied thanx for the feedback . thank you for your time.

I guess now that this happened to me I am a lil more confident in myself now .
 

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I've mentioned this one before...

... but its funny.

I was outside a club in the wee hours of the morning a few months ago talking to two chicks I'd just met.

They were intelligent femme types. One of them said "I'm cold.

I offered her my jacket. She was actually offended and went, "chivalry is dead!"

So I said, "f*ck you then b*tch."

Both girls laughed and for the rest of the night acted like I was the coolest things since refidgeration.

As for the doubters; While I agree that her little speech about being turned on reads nothing like the way people actually speak I don't find it hard to believe the story.

Finally as for it being "a new club tactic," settle down son. What you have discovered is the principal of not taking chicks ****. I doubt spending the night stealing chicks seats is the best way to go about things. But don't worry, girls give you plenty of opportunity to not let them get away with being *****es.

JJ
 

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What you have discovered is the principal of not taking chicks ****.
Bros, this is KEY.
It is KEY!


Women dream of meeting a man who:

(Read this carefully, and then REREAD it.)


"Puts me in my place."

"Doesn't avoid confrontation."

"Has conviction in his beliefs, and doesn't change his opinion just because I don't agree with his."

"Stands up to me."

"Knows how to handle my B*tchiness."


Verbatim from women.


Don't believe me?
You have still much to learn, gentlemen. If you don't already know this.
You must learn to accept it.
This is WOMAN.

This is what she WANTS.

This is what you must have become.


You don't take no sh*t from a woman.
Period.

(women go so far as saying they are aroused sexually by men whom display these masculine traits in their social interactions. You owe it to yourself to believe it.)
 
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Interceptor said:
.

Bros, this is KEY.
It is KEY!


Women dream of meeting a man who:

(Read this carefully, and then REREAD it.)


"Puts me in my place."

"Doesn't avoid confrontation."

"Has conviction in his beliefs, and doesn't change his opinion just because I don't agree with his."

"Stands up to me."

"Knows how to handle my B*tchiness."


Verbatim from women.


Don't believe me?
You have still much to learn, gentlemen. If you don't already know this.
You must learn to accept it.
This is WOMAN.

This is what she WANTS.

This is what you must have become.


You don't take no sh*t from a woman.
Period.

(women go so far as saying they are aroused sexually by men whom display these masculine traits in their social interactions. You owe it to yourself to believe it.)







(curious question it might sound stupid)
so are all women like this?

hey thanks for the info man .this is making me feel really good about myself.
 
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Jay Jay said:
... but its funny.

I was outside a club in the wee hours of the morning a few months ago talking to two chicks I'd just met.

They were intelligent femme types. One of them said "I'm cold.

I offered her my jacket. She was actually offended and went, "chivalry is dead!"

So I said, "f*ck you then b*tch."

Both girls laughed and for the rest of the night acted like I was the coolest things since refidgeration.

As for the doubters; While I agree that her little speech about being turned on reads nothing like the way people actually speak I don't find it hard to believe the story.

Finally as for it being "a new club tactic," settle down son. What you have discovered is the principal of not taking chicks ****. I doubt spending the night stealing chicks seats is the best way to go about things. But don't worry, girls give you plenty of opportunity to not let them get away with being *****es.

JJ

ok ill settle down who knows....... it might become a club tactic in the future but we need to see how things go
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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