Someone help me make sense of her behavior

[bigneil]

I found myself getting emotional and caring about what my girl was saying and doing, and I was asking prying questions, et cetera. I caused a breakup and ended up really hurting her and was lucky to get another chance.

But then I started working out with a physical trainer. Fast forward to a month later - not only was she worshiping me for how good I look now, but I found that surprisingly, I genuinely no longer cared who she had been with. I told her "I just want you to be healthy, punctual and want to be with me". She talked about her other lovers from her past and I just said "I genuinely no longer care".

I later told her "You can't reject me. You can only inspire me to improve until I eventually overwhelm you" and she said "I am seeing that!".

 

[Trump]

So i hit it off with this girl i met online. We were having sex shortly after the first date. This girl is really great in a lot of ways .. in almost every way actually.

She's beautiful .. nice body .. successful .. good behavior .. seems super loyal ... has me convinced she doesn't have a long history as a slut .. etc.. etc. etc. I've never met a girl who shows so many signs of really high interest, invests so heavily into the relationship (constantly bringing over food she made, cooking at my house, being submissive, offering to pay for everything, bringing me drinks, and just countless other selfless behavior, etc.) texting me often .. initiating dates .. coming over for awesome sex marathons (she lives 30+ mins away).. etc. etc. like i have no complaints whatsoever.

The thing is, that i like her, and it puzzles the crap out of me that she would show so many signs of high interest but she only wants FWB situation. She knows that i see several other girls regularly, and she's cool with it/encourages it. She keeps an online dating profile and checks it daily ... and she insists she's looking for a man to marry, and when she finds him she will stop having sex with me.

Anybody been in a situation like this before ? is she sh1t testing me ... playing mind games ... etc. ? don't most girls want commitment/one partner/? like something isn't adding up here...

Bro your story is made up and you are trolling.

Men read this and emphasize with the story and it ultimately confuses them. But hey, the people in charge rather posters act beta, confuse, and troll than make a good point and call people names right?

 

[l_e_g_e_n_d]

I later told her "You can't reject me. You can only inspire me to improve until I eventually overwhelm you" and she said "I am seeing that!".

I would have said:

"You can't reject me. You can only inspire me to improve until I eventually supersede you."

 

[bigneil]

I would have said:

"You can't reject me. You can only inspire me to improve until I eventually supersede you."

I think overwhelm and supersede are synonymous. They both imply superiority.

In any event, more dividends for my physical trainer. She hadn't seen me in a few weeks and noticed immediately.

Men, this is the key: Continuous self improvement. That way by the time she is superseded, many other women on her level will be available

 

[Bingo-Player]

So i hit it off with this girl i met online. We were having sex shortly after the first date. This girl is really great in a lot of ways .. in almost every way actually.

She's beautiful .. nice body .. successful .. good behavior .. seems super loyal ... has me convinced she doesn't have a long history as a slut .. etc.. etc. etc. I've never met a girl who shows so many signs of really high interest, invests so heavily into the relationship (constantly bringing over food she made, cooking at my house, being submissive, offering to pay for everything, bringing me drinks, and just countless other selfless behavior, etc.) texting me often .. initiating dates .. coming over for awesome sex marathons (she lives 30+ mins away).. etc. etc. like i have no complaints whatsoever.

The thing is, that i like her, and it puzzles the crap out of me that she would show so many signs of high interest but she only wants FWB situation. She knows that i see several other girls regularly, and she's cool with it/encourages it. She keeps an online dating profile and checks it daily ... and she insists she's looking for a man to marry, and when she finds him she will stop having sex with me.

Anybody been in a situation like this before ? is she sh1t testing me ... playing mind games ... etc. ? don't most girls want commitment/one partner/? like something isn't adding up here...

women as submissive as this girl sounds tend to mould to what the male wants from them

im guessing she's picking up on the fact the whole FWB thing is maybe what you want , or perhaps what your pretending you want

so she's telling you this to avoid being hurt herself

if you want her to mould into you're girlfriend, then that's what you have to emulate and lead her towards

i would be tempted to cut sex off with her for a month , you can still see her once a week but do more bf / gf activities such as going to the zoo , shopping etc etc

its a risky strategy as you never know what people are really thinking , but i think its worth a try if thats what you want from her