"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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some tips for formal plz :)

surfdog

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hey guys, ive got my formal in a week and im going with this slightly older girl that i've liked for a while..but shes always had a bf, now I heard shes single..and asked her..and she said yes :)

im wondering if any1s got any tips for me on the night..like now I think shes only going with me as a 'friend' but i know tht she likes me...but i do I get her to like me more?? get her to feel a strong attraction?

also does anyone hav any good C+F lines that would be helpful too

cheers guys
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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vanwilder

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man dont pre-game in your head, go with the flow... youll be waiting for the optimal time to use the line when really you can talk naturally and be disapointed you didnt use the "great line". ellict her feelings and go from there
 

i am me

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just hav fun and be loose. dont hold back wut u really wanna say or u really wanna do

also, try to make her laugh. things will be alot easier if a girl thinks ur funny (without being a clown)
 
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