"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Some simple words of advice.

S.Y.L

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I was watching TV last night, and there was this show on which changed my thinking a little, and it really did make sense on how to approach things.

This guy got charged for raping and killing a 16 year old girl, and his whole life he has denied it. They re open his case, and in 3 Days he is set to be executed. An investigator looks at his case, but they cannot gather enough evidence in time, and they kill the man who was convicted.

In his last 5 minutes of living, he tells the truth, and says, "The truth is what I have been saying all along, I didn't do it". And the second right before he dies, he tells the investigator, "Prove me right, Sir". The investigator tried to get them to re-open the case for 1 more day before he dies, but the head police chief wouldn't let him.

Later on, the investigator proves that the man was not lying, and that he was completely innocent. They get another suspect, and find out it was him, and he confesses, that he raped and murdered the 16 year old girl

In the next scene they show the wrongfully convicted man being buried. It was very sad to watch, that a guy, if he had 1 more day, could have lived, he tried his hardest, but being in jail, he didn't have too much of a chance. His last words, meant something. If the main police chief opened the case a day earlier, he could have lived.


My point is, live life to the fullest, don't be afraid of little things like asking out a girl, or talking to her, you never know what happens in life. Think of it this way.

What if you had only 1 day to live

What if there was a single breath you could take, to do something you always wanted, but you were too scared to.

What if you had 1 day to prove something

What if that day is today...

So don't be afraid to do something you are nervous to do, because of very small consequences. It will never ever be 6:00 PM on this day and year ever again, this moment is yours, make use of it now.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"It will never ever be 6:00 PM on this day and year ever again, this moment is yours, make use of it now." Wow thats just beautiful. Your right, take advantage of time.

And wow on the post. Poor boy.
 

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thanks guys, your only young once. do it.
 
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