"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Some inspiration for those affected by break ups and ex girls.

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I personally have been out of a serious relationship for nearly 4 months now. We had even moved in together and all the business. I feel I bounced back rather quickly. I feel excellent, improving, dealing with an insane estranged lover albeit a lover nontheless, getting my money, start business school next month, and improving my capabilities within the female psyche. This here is a song that I would listen to for just about a month straight once or so a day(after the initial break).. It really makes sense albeit it is a rap song for you white flavor folks.. It makes alot of sense and gives the pointers right on the money. The main motivation of sorts that is.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0KrhEu66Bnk
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Indeed my friend chuch. Too $hort is one of my favorite rappers. If you're going along those lines.. Try UGK and Pimp C in particular, my myspace is decked out in UGK songs. Definitely good stuff.. Well maybe not for country or white flavor folks.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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I've heard a rumor that in a Interview Too Short said he wasnt the stuff he rapped about in songs. That his lyircs were just for entertainment and had nothing to do with him...

Dont know if its true or not but, I like him anyways.

Heres a song I like from him - "Dont Ever Give Up" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gufMkl1brRc

@ ima str8 up pimp I havent heard that 36 song before... Thanks for sharing!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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