"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Some guys just svck. & they may be doomed to svcking all their lives.

Kirro

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It seems that even in an era where tons of knowledge is at your fingertips people will still persist in mediocrity, stupidity & svckiness.

Over the last week I've such retarded topics from so called DJs in training & it is hilarious how little they have learned. There is a DJ Bible, Anti-Dump, Pook, Rollo & many others that provide excellent information. Then you have guys like Pastor Igetit!, Kailex, Rescue Mission, Nismo, Captain, sodbuster & a few others giving out good advice yet people persist in their ignorance.

A dude who claims to have been some former super stud moved in a cheating cvnt who leaves her phone lying around arbitrarily & admits to going out with other guys, yet he claims he loves her & takes her back.

A dude who fvcked a chick he met online & somehow botched it with too many texts. After about a week of cringe worthy text exchanges, she admits she has a new man.

We've got dudes talking to strippers.....really? REALLY? Another dude has a muslim c*ocktease who is getting all the attention & validation she needs while using her religion as a c*ckbarrier.

The worse part about it is, these guys(you know who you are) out of some pathetic sense of pride must always rationalize their mistakes & the girls words to make it seem like its out of their control & must always throw in, "oh I was a player, oh I have no problem getting the girls"....yet if these statements are true why are you so attached to a girl who isn't playing by your rules?

The minute you say to ignore the girl, next her or she's not that into or she's not attracted they get offended like, "no way that can't be it" or they resort to bashing the DJ principles.

So let me get this straight, these men have no spine for girls using them & giving them the run around but suddenly they are ready to fight & resist when we try to set them straight?

What's the point of talking if nobody ever learns?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Sir Psycho Sexy

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huh? no one ever learns?

Everyone here is at a different level of learning and understanding the seduction dynamics, everyone learns at a different pace, everyone has their own opinions.

A few guys here will never get it and never learn but who cares. Why waste your time posting here if you really believe what you just said? If I thought no one ever learns then i wouldnt be here

Just ignore the "stupid" threads. There are plenty of legitiment threads that are worth discussing.
 

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Worry about yourself. Are you getting what YOU need? Are you growing? Are you learning? Cultivate rational selfishness. What these guys eat don't make you sh1t, what they fvck don't make you kum, when they chump out it doesn't make you weak. Take what you can use and toss the rest. Good luck.
 

Kirro

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Just ignore the "stupid" threads. There are plenty of legitiment threads that are worth discussing.

Really? Every time I see a thread pop up about someone getting their life together or working on themselves first before they rush headlong into battle, it gets two posts & that's it.

Yet these sappy topics fly past 40 responses in less than 3 days.
 

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Why create a thread *****ing about other guys not having any success? Why do you care? Worry about yourself. You know what annoys me? Seeing *****y threads like this or ones that wish for "the good old days".
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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beaker

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Str8up always posted solid advice.
He had a thing for strippers.

What happened to him anyway?
 

Kirro

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@Warrior & Scion.

I am concerned about myself & I am using this knowledge to grow. The process is quite slow as I actually want to develop some real value to make the knowledge more effective.

Thing is I can't help that seeing men fall by the wayside annoys me. Maybe its the fact that my life is only busy with work right now that I even visit this site but as long as I'm here it just doesn't sit well with me that even with all this knowledge & advice guys are still getting chumped out.
 

Ease

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I dont come here to help people, i come for the chat.

Dont give advice, wise dont need it, fools wont heed it.
 

Kirro

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Interesting. I don't even have to say anything more. I understand.
 
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