"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Some good tips for HS , might help your ass

Daddy The Pimp

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If you have problems getting popularity of girls in HS , this might help you .

Being social in HS is key of getting laid .
Maybe not the key , but one of the most important things .

Y'all know that noone wants to be will lonely looser . So , from tomorrow , try improving your behaviours and yourself in general .

Start by talking to everyone .
Try demostrating higher value all the time . VALUE its most important thing in all aspects of life .

Try to stop or reduce negative things going in your life . Try to be around positive people . Even through people try to turn you down or something , dont give a fvck .


Anyway , im gonna break this step by step on what to work .

Inner game - Try to change your point of view

Guy friends

Try to be leader of your friends . Organize to go out with them , call them to your house , tell them interesting sh1t .

Anyway , sometimes we cant figure friend from enemy . A friend who make fun of you all the time is not friend . A friend who always try to put you down is not a friend . So , try to get rid of these fvckers and try to be as much as you can around positive friends . Try to be around the ones that you go home laughing , happy . These kind of friends help you very much :D .

Bullies

Never , ever take sh1t from bullies . They are just some insecure idiots that will try to destroy your day while having fun . Are you gonna allow that ?

Here you have some tips to fight them .
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=142702

^this is physical way . In mental way , try always to make fun of them , and when they touch you , just tell them that you're not gay . Tell them they look like idiots in front of people , but not in a serious way , while laughing .Tell them they are not impressing anyone for doing these behaviors . In general , make fun of them a lot :D .

HOT Girls

Girls , HOT girls .These are the most insecure girls in the world . They are also boring as hell . They learned to get their way all the time . It all started from they g4y father , being theyr magic lamb and making all their wishes come true . Once they feel resistence , and they see that someone's not giving a sh1t about them , they will change their attitude and become better with that person .


And , try to understand one thing . THEY ARE HUMANS . Like you and me . Like all other stinky nerds . They are stinky too if they play basketball all day . They sh1t too (imagine the girl that you would die for her taking sh1t . Yuck ) . They are dirty as we are .

So never put them in priority list .

Never , ever . They are just some guests on your reality . You are the MAN . You are the king . They are nothing . Noone else is nothing .

This attitude is attractive to guys and girls . Once you have developed this , and you see that they are not even 1% more important than you , you have won most of the game . Youll not be needy and insecure idiot around them .

So , try to be that guy that doesnt take noones sh1t , that isnt hot babe doggy .

Anyway , as i was saying , they are very insecure . They are the ones that spend 2 hours in toilet trying to look better . They are the ones that when we throw bad comment on them will take all day long thinking about it . So , dont be scared of them .

Thats it for inner game about hot biaaatches :D .

LOOK DOES MATTER

You know why it does matter . Because , most of the guys are AFC . They wait and wait for girls to talk to them . They never do the first step .

But hey , you're Don Juan . You're the one that knows scientific ways of attracting women . Why the hell you need a girl to approach you ?
You can do it yourself , you can approach her and get her attracted to you .

Good looking boys (and GIRLS as i said earlier) , are most of the time BORING peoples . Once youll get in that social circle , youll see that theyr life is much more emptier than you thought .

So , when you're that interesting guy , that doesnt take sh1t from her , and make her laugh , and has enough value , she will definitely be attracted to you .

"So , you see that at the end , look doesnt matter at all . "


Yea , but , noone wants to be with dirty idiot .

Work on your look

Easy , even if your not good looking (for example 4-5 ) you can increase your look level in 2-3 levels ( 6-7 ) .

Try to be clean . Try to be best of yourself . Groom yourself , trim your beard , get a great hairstyle .

Clothes can increase your look level too . Try to get some good clean clothes . Spend some money on them . And dont wear same t-shirt all semester , silly (like the one's on my school that wear a metalica or iron maiden t-shirt for all semester ) .

Also , try working out , or at least , do some push-ups and some of this stuff at home . It will give you a lot of confidence and a lot of value .

If you're fat , have a nice diet (not extreme one ) and jog and do some other stuff to loose your weight . Youll be impressed from confidence and value that will come to you after this .


ME ( YOU )

So , from tomorrow , try to change yourself . Be the guy that you want to be . Close your eye's , imagine how you want to be and be that guy .

Period .

I dont wanna discuss more about this .

Get what you want . You're the DJ .

Fridays , Saturdays

Friday came :D , your gonna play computer ?
You're gonna watch your favorite TV show ?
You're gonna be on Sosuave ?

Get away from home looser .

Call your friends and hit bars . Go to places when you can meet new people . Grab your balls and approach . Not to get laid , but to meet new people . Its so fun and youll thank me for this if you do this .

Period again :D .

CHANGES - If you're gonna apply these steps , and gonna change your personality , READ THIS .


Alright guys , as you saw on spiderman :D , with GREAT CHANGES , COMES GREAT RESPONSIBILITY lol . Anyway , im trying to say , that if you will change yourself , and your attitude , a lot of people are going to put you down . A lot of people will try to make fun of you or something like that .

But i have one advice . A great one .

FVCK THEM . Yeah , fvck them . They are scared that the attention is passing on you .

Continue what you're doing without doubting on yourself or giving a fvck what other thing of you . If you give up , you dont deserve being THE MAN .







Alright guys , This was a long thread , and i think i've covered some good tips here . Even if you knew them , its better to re-read them .

If you have question , ask it here . Im tired now to write more .

Reccomanded thread here
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=24770
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Good ideas to give to a guy with low self-esteem who needs to get his act together, but suggesting to show your alphaness and awesomeness all the time makes you come off like a narcissistic ego freak. There are times when a person needs to openly admit his mistakes and acknowledge his flaws, not just to himself but to those he cares of to gain a better perspective on himself for further self improvement.
 

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Yea , but most of the guys , im talking about the ones in my school and i know that they are everywhere , need to learn that they are the SH!T . They are the prize .

Most of them are cool guys , but in front of womens , they act like a pvssy .

I just felt the need to tell them that they are the sh1t , not women .
 

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Daddy The Pimp said:
Yea , but most of the guys , im talking about the ones in my school and i know that they are everywhere , need to learn that they are the SH!T . They are the prize .

Most of them are cool guys , but in front of womens , they act like a pvssy .

I just felt the need to tell them that they are the sh1t , not women .
I would say that the path is more of becoming the sh*t, not just thinking that they are. Think all one may, he will only develop a mindset of a great man by doing the things he wants and not letting failure or any stupid rationalising or phobias stop him. Only imagining about his awesomeness is pretty schizophrenic.

You may say that by opening up to lots of people, initiating talk and situations he is already "doing" the change, but really its superficial. A guy has to become great on a personal level, independently of other people, by just concentrating his mind on the path to the goal, be it sports, hobbies, science, whatever. Once they develop that mindset, neediness and unsureness of ones value will naturally disappear without having to beat their chests and tell themselves they are the ****!
 

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Cry For Love said:
I would say that the path is more of becoming the sh*t, not just thinking that they are. Think all one may, he will only develop a mindset of a great man by doing the things he wants and not letting failure or any stupid rationalising or phobias stop him. Only imagining about his awesomeness is pretty schizophrenic.

You may say that by opening up to lots of people, initiating talk and situations he is already "doing" the change, but really its superficial. A guy has to become great on a personal level, independently of other people, by just concentrating his mind on the path to the goal, be it sports, hobbies, science, whatever. Once they develop that mindset, neediness and unsureness of ones value will naturally disappear without having to beat their chests and tell themselves they are the ****!
You completely missed the point . Im trying to tell and convince these guys to respect firstly themselves than others .Im trying to reduce their anxienty's and show them that women are not something we should fear . They are not something that we should consider our god and do whatever they say . Im also telling that they have to be who they want to be otherwise they are loosers .

You're saying that opening people will not improve their game and their confidence . You're dead wrong .
This will build them social skills that they need .

Imaging what you want to be is same as putting yourself goals . Its not schizophrenic at all . Lot of people do it .

Look deep in words and see whats the point .

If you get the point , youll see that im right .
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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HOT Girls

Girls , HOT girls .These are the most insecure girls in the world . They are also boring as hell . They learned to get their way all the time . It all started from they g4y father , being theyr magic lamb and making all their wishes come true . Once they feel resistence , and they see that someone's not giving a sh1t about them , they will change their attitude and become better with that person .


And , try to understand one thing . THEY ARE HUMANS . Like you and me . Like all other stinky nerds . They are stinky too if they play basketball all day . They sh1t too (imagine the girl that you would die for her taking sh1t . Yuck ) . They are dirty as we are .

So never put them in priority list .

Never , ever . They are just some guests on your reality . You are the MAN . You are the king . They are nothing . Noone else is nothing .

This attitude is attractive to guys and girls . Once you have developed this , and you see that they are not even 1% more important than you , you have won most of the game . Youll not be needy and insecure idiot around them .

So , try to be that guy that doesnt take noones sh1t , that isnt hot babe doggy .

Anyway , as i was saying , they are very insecure . They are the ones that spend 2 hours in toilet trying to look better . They are the ones that when we throw bad comment on them will take all day long thinking about it . So , dont be scared of them .
:cool:

My favorite part.:D
Youre right I noticed myself doing this, putting them up on a pedastol. But no more.

And thanks for the shltting imagery that really floored me

:up:
 

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Daddy The Pimp said:
Yea , but most of the guys , im talking about the ones in my school and i know that they are everywhere , need to learn that they are the SH!T . They are the prize .

Most of them are cool guys , but in front of womens , they act like a pvssy .

I just felt the need to tell them that they are the sh1t , not women .
Not everyone is "the sh!t"... you are certainly high on that list.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i would say the main things you need to suceed in high school are:

before i start my tips i would like to tell you the most important thing you need to know to improve in HS, BEFORE ANYTHING, YOU NEED TO BECOME THE SELF PROCLAIMED SH1T, TELL YOURSELF YOU ARE EVERY MORNING, BEFORE YOU GO TO BED, WHENEVER. Only when you know you are the great catch can you use the tips on this website to their full potential, i was on this site for months and was thinking, why am i not getting girls now, the answer was simple, i didnt think i was the great catch, i couldnt see what girls would find atractive about me, but, one day i woke up and thought fvck it, i am a great guy, i have everything a girl could want, i am the sh1t, then everything else fell into place quite simply!


1) eliminate desire (hot chicks in high school are desired by most AFC lads, not desiring them shows them you have better things to do which makes them want to find out more)

2) Get great social proof (just talk to people, let on to them in the corridor, show people that you know people, this shows that your social, fun and will get a goodd reputation by being with you, this makes everyone swarm towards you!!)

3) Dont pedestalize girls ( i did this with 2 HB9's at my after prom party last weekend and one told me my body was perfection and the other one made a move on me! i couldnt do anything as i have a gf but was a nice compliment lol) this was done by just talking to them as a human being, not seeing them as HB9 in our society, but as a human being who is their to be talked to)

4) Get in shape (fits in with no1, if your in shape, it shows that you have other shizz to do, it improves your looks and your confidence, makes girls get wet for your body and can show you to be alpha)

5) dress well and keep well trimmed (if you do all the others and keep well trimmed and make sure your dress sense is good, girls will want you like fvck, this will make you no longer the self proclaimed sh1t but the actual sh1t)

oh yeah, i almost forgot, have a positive attitude, pessimism helps no-one lol
 
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