i was talking to a female friend about some passed experiences with a girl/girls and this is what she told me..
IMO she really did drop some jewels of knowledge, she is much older than me and has been around ALOT, heres our conversation we had over lunch:
Muttley:
ok just say... you liked a guy waaaaay back, but he didnt really reciprocate or give u any clear cut signs that he liked you too. would u move on or keep and/or consider him at a later date if he showed interest?
female friend:
hmmm later date, it depends. sometimes its pointless trying, but then sometimes u cud just hang on.
Muttley:
what do u mean pointless?
female friend:
see what happens, well what if they really arent intrested !
Muttley:
hmm what wud make u think that?
female friend:
if they ignored me totally.
Muttley:
hehehe i fee l ya , oh man i screwed up with one girl
female friend:
how muttley...?
Muttley:
there was this gurl, i was too dumb to realise she liked me , ALOT. i liked her too aswell
female friend:
just tell her
Muttley:
hahaha as if
female friend:
why? say u never knew
Muttley:
u see i cant tell her now
female friend:
why not????
Muttley:
cos for a start we dont txt each other any more, havent called/txted/ or seen her since last august. no contact at all. She gone to uni in another city :/
female friend:
if she liiked u that much, she wud appreciate a hello or something.
Muttley:
u see thats another thing, just before we lost contact, she really opened up, not her legs though hahah,
female friend:
muttley your such a dawg lol, what did she say to you
Muttley:
but she told me about ALLLL the guys that are chasin her, or all the guys that are interested in her
Female Friend:
well she was clearly tryin make u jealous you moron.
Muttley:
why tho??
Female Friend:
because when do we be truly honest with feelings?
we never outright say to someone "look i fancy u how about it". u never do incase we get knocked back, so u play games.
Muttley:
how ultra fvckin evil!
Female Friend:
hahahahaa, like her tellin u who liked her
Muttley:
no seriously why do u do dat?? is it to make her self appear more desirable?
Female Friend:
yes muttley
Muttley:
is she sayin "hey look d1ckhead i have guys wantin to bone me"
Female Friend:
to make u think, "people want me"
exactly!
Muttley:
erm..well she even told me that she was kissin one guy etc etc and how he was ALL over her, how bout them applez . i thiink it got to a point where she saw me as a gurly friend and told me all this stuff as a friend cos i acted like a pvssy and didnt make a move on her
Female Friend:
i doubt it
Muttley:
oh really? why is that then?
Female Friend:
cause she was probably just doin it to make u want her, and want her even more.
Muttley:
she succeeded tho and now shes dissapeard!
Female Friend:
not well enuff!!! , just txt her
Muttley:
cannot txt, cannot break cycle, cannot let my manhood down , even if its 50yrs
Female Friend:
the balls in your court muttley.
Muttley:
u see from what she told me , i figure she has 4-5 guys on the go. she said "this guys takin me out" "your mate blah wants to hook up with me" blah blah :/
Female Friend:
lol !!! oh muttley u sap, i did that to my ex bf, i told him all the guys i was with , ot was cause i loved him lol
Muttley:
lol i doubt she loves me or loved me
Female Friend:
yeah well, but i did it cause i liked him and wanted him think god shes gettin it a bit and gettin around
Muttley:
hahahaha really, oh well.. the last time i seen her , she was kinda cold , kinda like i dont want you near me type thing
less +ve , more -ve
Female Friend:
yeah, probably becuz she didnt get u
Muttley:
i dunno what to think, im not really bothered i never know when a gurl likes me
Female Friend:
well you screwed up here muttley u liked her but u didnt tell her
Muttley:
i wudve , she took it the wrong way,she rang me when i was drunk lol and wanted to meet me in college, i was hung over lol and i cudnt make it, but she really did ring me out of the fvckin blue!
Female Friend:
awwww, no wonder she hated u , u blew her off! that is like the WORST!
Muttley:
damn , really?
Female Friend:
its rejection lol, nobody likes it
Muttley:
she rang the first time around 2pm, i said wasup and told her i wasnt around, she said fine, she will see her gurl friends i was like ok. i dosed off again. then 20 minz later she called again "are u in college now?" me being a d1ckhead said "erm im not" she said "where are u?" i said " im at home asleep" and her tone of voice went to "awwww" and said sorry for wakin u up, i said fine
Female Friend:
oh god ! if that was me , id of near cried lol, so really this girl had practically put it there for ya 2-3 times,
TXT HER RIGHT NOW YOU T1T!
Muttley:
ive erased her from my head really, i deleted her numbers so that i dont do such a foolish thing hun , removed every trace of her, u see when she told me about other guys, i was like fvck that im out the picture then
Female Friend:
shes probably lyin tho, believe me
there, did u see? all the games women play. My friend really helped a lot here she really knows what kinda games girls play becuase she plays them her self. Women + games, damn that lol.
When this situation with this girl that we were discussing happend, i was very AFC, at last i have seen some sense, yet i am no DJ but we grow every day. MY views have changed so much believe me dudes. Im not that same AFC i was back then , thats for sure.
I learnt alot from this, does any one wanna share/comment/criticize/
stay strong
Muttley
IMO she really did drop some jewels of knowledge, she is much older than me and has been around ALOT, heres our conversation we had over lunch:
Muttley:
ok just say... you liked a guy waaaaay back, but he didnt really reciprocate or give u any clear cut signs that he liked you too. would u move on or keep and/or consider him at a later date if he showed interest?
female friend:
hmmm later date, it depends. sometimes its pointless trying, but then sometimes u cud just hang on.
Muttley:
what do u mean pointless?
female friend:
see what happens, well what if they really arent intrested !
Muttley:
hmm what wud make u think that?
female friend:
if they ignored me totally.
Muttley:
hehehe i fee l ya , oh man i screwed up with one girl
female friend:
how muttley...?
Muttley:
there was this gurl, i was too dumb to realise she liked me , ALOT. i liked her too aswell
female friend:
just tell her
Muttley:
hahaha as if
female friend:
why? say u never knew
Muttley:
u see i cant tell her now
female friend:
why not????
Muttley:
cos for a start we dont txt each other any more, havent called/txted/ or seen her since last august. no contact at all. She gone to uni in another city :/
female friend:
if she liiked u that much, she wud appreciate a hello or something.
Muttley:
u see thats another thing, just before we lost contact, she really opened up, not her legs though hahah,
female friend:
muttley your such a dawg lol, what did she say to you
Muttley:
but she told me about ALLLL the guys that are chasin her, or all the guys that are interested in her
Female Friend:
well she was clearly tryin make u jealous you moron.
Muttley:
why tho??
Female Friend:
because when do we be truly honest with feelings?
we never outright say to someone "look i fancy u how about it". u never do incase we get knocked back, so u play games.
Muttley:
how ultra fvckin evil!
Female Friend:
hahahahaa, like her tellin u who liked her
Muttley:
no seriously why do u do dat?? is it to make her self appear more desirable?
Female Friend:
yes muttley
Muttley:
is she sayin "hey look d1ckhead i have guys wantin to bone me"
Female Friend:
to make u think, "people want me"
exactly!
Muttley:
erm..well she even told me that she was kissin one guy etc etc and how he was ALL over her, how bout them applez . i thiink it got to a point where she saw me as a gurly friend and told me all this stuff as a friend cos i acted like a pvssy and didnt make a move on her
Female Friend:
i doubt it
Muttley:
oh really? why is that then?
Female Friend:
cause she was probably just doin it to make u want her, and want her even more.
Muttley:
she succeeded tho
and now shes dissapeard!Female Friend:
not well enuff!!! , just txt her
Muttley:
cannot txt, cannot break cycle, cannot let my manhood down , even if its 50yrs
Female Friend:
the balls in your court muttley.
Muttley:
u see from what she told me , i figure she has 4-5 guys on the go. she said "this guys takin me out" "your mate blah wants to hook up with me" blah blah :/
Female Friend:
lol !!! oh muttley u sap, i did that to my ex bf, i told him all the guys i was with , ot was cause i loved him lol
Muttley:
lol i doubt she loves me or loved me
Female Friend:
yeah well, but i did it cause i liked him and wanted him think god shes gettin it a bit and gettin around
Muttley:
hahahaha really, oh well.. the last time i seen her , she was kinda cold , kinda like i dont want you near me type thing
less +ve , more -ve
Female Friend:
yeah, probably becuz she didnt get u
Muttley:
i dunno what to think, im not really bothered
i never know when a gurl likes meFemale Friend:
well you screwed up here muttley u liked her but u didnt tell her
Muttley:
i wudve , she took it the wrong way,she rang me when i was drunk lol and wanted to meet me in college, i was hung over lol and i cudnt make it, but she really did ring me out of the fvckin blue!
Female Friend:
awwww, no wonder she hated u , u blew her off! that is like the WORST!
Muttley:
damn , really?
Female Friend:
its rejection lol, nobody likes it
Muttley:
she rang the first time around 2pm, i said wasup and told her i wasnt around, she said fine, she will see her gurl friends i was like ok. i dosed off again. then 20 minz later she called again "are u in college now?" me being a d1ckhead said "erm im not" she said "where are u?" i said " im at home asleep" and her tone of voice went to "awwww" and said sorry for wakin u up, i said fine
Female Friend:
oh god ! if that was me , id of near cried lol, so really this girl had practically put it there for ya 2-3 times,
TXT HER RIGHT NOW YOU T1T!
Muttley:
ive erased her from my head really, i deleted her numbers so that i dont do such a foolish thing hun , removed every trace of her, u see when she told me about other guys, i was like fvck that im out the picture then
Female Friend:
shes probably lyin tho, believe me
there, did u see? all the games women play. My friend really helped a lot here she really knows what kinda games girls play becuase she plays them her self. Women + games, damn that lol.
When this situation with this girl that we were discussing happend, i was very AFC, at last i have seen some sense, yet i am no DJ but we grow every day. MY views have changed so much believe me dudes. Im not that same AFC i was back then , thats for sure.
I learnt alot from this, does any one wanna share/comment/criticize/
stay strong
Muttley