"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Solomon clear your inbox I can't PM you.

leave your profile as is.

Your reply to their messages:


respond to the two that responded to you: Hey thanks for your message. how's the site been treating you so far?

After they respond: (respond one sentence to what they responded along with): I'm not on here much lately. I've been doing intense training in the gym. Give me your number and I'll give you a call sometime. =) (your name)

by that third message you'll get the numbers.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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when are you going to update your thread about first messages? I will say that I used to have a way that worked like a charm years ago for ALL online dating sites. the last time I was on any it didn't work all that great. well it did for what most people on here would consider success, but my reply rating went from about 90% to about 60%. years ago it would get their interest level up, nowdays some would just answer back and then you'd never hear from them again after you replied the second time.

btw, all I did was think up about 5 of the most random questions I could think of, with a FEW sentences in the beginning of the email so they wouldn't think it was just a copy and paste email. the genius behind it was MOST thought it was unique and was different then what they usually got from guys.

it was kind of like football. I had the perfect play that would gain HUGE yardage everytime but since then the defense has adjusted and it doesn't seem to work as well as it once did years ago.
 

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Robert28 said:
when are you going to update your thread about first messages? I will say that I used to have a way that worked like a charm years ago for ALL online dating sites. the last time I was on any it didn't work all that great. well it did for what most people on here would consider success, but my reply rating went from about 90% to about 60%. years ago it would get their interest level up, nowdays some would just answer back and then you'd never hear from them again after you replied the second time.

btw, all I did was think up about 5 of the most random questions I could think of, with a FEW sentences in the beginning of the email so they wouldn't think it was just a copy and paste email. the genius behind it was MOST thought it was unique and was different then what they usually got from guys.

it was kind of like football. I had the perfect play that would gain HUGE yardage everytime but since then the defense has adjusted and it doesn't seem to work as well as it once did years ago.

You HAVE to have at LEAST one good shirtless pic not mirror (unless built like a God) if you are cut up with a six pack and send a unique opener they'll reply. If you aren't working out. You'd better start. POF is nothing more than an Adult Friend Finder thinly disguised as a 'dating' site. That's what it's become. you play the game. "Believe" their nonsense and don't get hooked or affected by any of it. Keep your cool. Don't get sexual till you meet them. a little is ok. Too much and they will flake. Play the 'she's a good girl' routine right along with them till their slvt shield comes down in person.

The more smiling pics outdoors having fun and looking good in a shirtless pic (don't believe the B.S) they'll reply EVEN MORE. I've done it numerous times to chicks who state they don't reply to shirtless guys..LMAO

First message is something like:

I would personally beatbox the entire Justin Bieber song catalog on national television just to share a romantic Ramen Pride noodle dinner with you over a dial up connection...But that's beside the point..

Congratulations are in order here. If I ever meet the owner of Plenty of Fish I’m going to demand to him that you be paid for your profile! For a free dating site, yours is THE greatest profile ever written in the history of online dating!

I swear I’m going to print it out and post it on my fridge to admire…FOREVER..

Keep up the good work you adorable, heavenly blessed lil cutie!

Ciao bella and I hope you have a great day. =)

(Your mind will be BLOWN at the stupidity these chicks reply to thinking you've 'read' their profile, and liked it all in a copy and paste. And with a great body...EASY WORK.)

If they call you out on the first being a copy and paste? I throw it right back at them in the second message:

I swear to sweet little baby Jesus you are only the 1,908,234th person I've sent that message. (They STILL reply!!)

Either way:

second reply to them is: Thanks. lol How's the site been treating you so far?

as soon as they reply I reply quick to what they said and on the same thrid message : "I'm not on here much. Give me your number and I'll give you a call sometime." (your name) =)

By the third message I have the number.

They key is your BEST pictures. Athletic outdoors pics, shirtless at the beach. That is what pushes them to 'decide' which is the 'best' message to reply to.

Three replies. No time for email tennis. Keep spamming your intro. and rinse cycle repeat with the same quick conversations to a number. Don't wait for anyone to stall or think about things. Some chicks reply right away with their number. Some a few days. Some even a week. By then I've gotten so many I take theirs and call them when I get the chance.



Update: Solomon third message and that chick just sent you her number on POF and wants you to text her.

Your area is a horror show though...spam messages to chicks in places you visit or have family you visit a lot especially if your area svcks...that way you have chicks to 'hang out' with when you go on vacation..
 

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I don't have any shirtless pics that I know of. if I have to post shirtless pics then they should to dammit!haha I don't understand why I have to be in shape when 80% of the women on there have turkey neck, look like they're smuggling a tire under there shirt, or jiggly arms, or tree trunk legs.lol
 

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Robert28 said:
I don't have any shirtless pics that I know of. if I have to post shirtless pics then they should to dammit!haha I don't understand why I have to be in shape when 80% of the women on there have turkey neck, look like they're smuggling a tire under there shirt, or jiggly arms, or tree trunk legs.lol

repped +1

Ninja my views are NUTZ and the pic we got up isn't even that good, but I guess these slores are thristy for some "black prime rib"

:crackup:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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