Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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solid advice about bringing out the traits you dont like about a woman and not what you do like

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Id like to verify some solid overlooked advice i believe @ubercat replied with in one of my posts the other day

I was due to date a HB9 who was the epitome of indifferent, she could have( what i thought) been a Royal Princess no probs

sub conciously and stupidly i did not believe i was the prize it was like an automatic feeling

He advised find out what you dont like about her this will peg her down to inline with anyother woman

ANYWAY

night out comes round and she starts spouting out the word CUUNT here and there, i repulse a woman who comes out with this word over stupid convo this was the "real her"

instantly and automatically i went aloof and indifferent like my available bank balance was 8.5 million pounds, cba with the woman

2 hours later she was in my bed, now SHES blowing up my phone, ,,UNBELIEVABLE

ill be nexting her ...i dont hang around in pubs with women screaming FCK and **** at my table over idle chit chat
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Unless she sucked in bed (and not in a good way), just keep pounding her.

She has shown you how to treat her, keep banging and keep adding more plates who have better qualities than this one. She will eventually eliminate her self to other better quality women. In the meantime, call her up when you want her to come over to your place to chill out.

Just dont hang out with her in public and allow her to embarrass you. Problem solved.

And I agree....I have no problem with a woman letting an f bomb slip once in a while, but if she has a potty mouth in public, its a huge turnoff.

In the bedroom is a totally different story. Still yet to find one that made me blush in bed.
 

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I'll bear it in mind, amazingly 3 women hit me up once I'd been out with her amazing how it works or how they do...should I say
 

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he means youll think to yourself, shes a real real CATCH, youll hang around with her and shell start actually showing traits you dislike and youll realise she was nothing different than the other 27 million,,,

ie mine saying "cunnt a lot"
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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he means youll think to yourself, shes a real real CATCH, youll hang around with her and shell start actually showing traits you dislike and youll realise she was nothing different than the other 27 million,,,

ie mine saying "cunnt a lot"
Problem is getting them to hang around me in the first place. I already know they have faults from a distance.
 

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Id like to verify some solid overlooked advice i believe @ubercat replied with in one of my posts the other day

I was due to date a HB9 who was the epitome of indifferent, she could have( what i thought) been a Royal Princess no probs

sub conciously and stupidly i did not believe i was the prize it was like an automatic feeling

He advised find out what you dont like about her this will peg her down to inline with anyother woman

ANYWAY

night out comes round and she starts spouting out the word CUUNT here and there, i repulse a woman who comes out with this word over stupid convo this was the "real her"

instantly and automatically i went aloof and indifferent like my available bank balance was 8.5 million pounds, cba with the woman

2 hours later she was in my bed, now SHES blowing up my phone, ,,UNBELIEVABLE

ill be nexting her ...i dont hang around in pubs with women screaming FCK and **** at my table over idle chit chat
Can you clarify this for me?

My English might not be good enough.

So the indifferent girl (or the girl that seems to be all over the place, never settling down: I've known a few who travels 11months a year, can't be at the same place more than a week, they always seems you can't connect with her).... She bored you and said stuff you didnt like.

When that happened you started acting like she didn't matter or wasn't even there? (Like talking to yourself) or you did random talk? (Like money, what's cba?, cat feeding, rugby)?

That lead her to your bed...or she got suddenly interested in giving a "connection" or "attention"

Than you physically lead her to your bed or you talked more and left together the bar to your place
 

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So the indifferent girl
no sorry @Von ill explain

the woman is hugely attractive, so due to the amount of attention and orbiters she has , she has a couldnt care less attitude(shes still a little polite) and shes
aloof

I sub concsiously believed she was a prize , even though that sounds stupid

However upon managing to get her out with me, ...this princess i had pictured in her castle that i was gonna sex up, was nothing more than a swearing embarassing idiot who looked good

i then totally went into calm down mode and started talking to her like i would any other woman, aloof and indifferent but remained charming!!

i then bedded her

point being i got myself in a right ruffle beforehand and there was no need once id seen the true colours and not my dream? of her
 

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no sorry @Von ill explain

the woman is hugely attractive, so due to the amount of attention and orbiters she has , she has a couldnt care less attitude(shes still a little polite) and shes
aloof

I sub concsiously believed she was a prize , even though that sounds stupid

However upon managing to get her out with me, ...this princess i had pictured in her castle that i was gonna sex up, was nothing more than a swearing embarassing idiot who looked good

i then totally went into calm down mode and started talking to her like i would any other woman, aloof and indifferent but remained charming!!

i then bedded her

point being i got myself in a right ruffle beforehand and there was no need once id seen the true colours and not my dream? of her
I like that you're being very honest about this chick. It shows that your standards are high and more things matter than just looks. Kudos.

When men raise their standards, wonderful things happen. Many guys would look at this chicks appearance and put up with the other shyte just for some arm candy. Not me. Not you. No, beauty is more than skin deep. If things are going to happen with a chick out of the bedroom, I still want to be proud to have her on my arm out in public by the way she carries herself and the way she acts (including intelligent conversation and acting like a lady).

It also makes a wonderful conversation piece about oneitis. You should never put all eggs in one basket, and never think too highly of a woman until she meets more criteria than looks alone.

Kudos my man.
 

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these women have got there head so far above the clouds due to Social media etc

I mean the constant **** tests she was shooting off were unreal SHE WAS GOOD

HOWEVER

In Reality she was the one who was the low value with issues , derby1 has not time for these women who have the audacity to test, but there the problem
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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