"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Social test- bingo-winged woman on bus- a warning

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I was getting on my weekly bus. When I got into her peripheral vision as I went to my seat, a woman, matted hair, bingo wings, rolled her eyes and was slumped over the whole trip like a narcissist.
I think she was also autistic based on her speak and the way she clung to her male accomplice as we got moving.
I have worked with spectrum sufferers and they can been trouble for people around them-I've seen it in a simulated employment setting, and on public transport.
If I hadn't put things into pespective, in the work shift that followed I have could have had a meltdown
I have a contact who ensures I make a success of my work, and we get on like a house on fire. :cool:It's the best job I've had.
You might have your eye on Barbie-lookin' gals, whatever, or you have lower standards perhaps, or not thinking about women at all, NOBODY expects to go into public and be met with that. She is unaware that loads of women are like this. And a male equivalent with peen would NOT act like this.
I would be an incredibly lazy person if I didn't do this thread.
Bus drivers, like on my service, meet rude people all the time. Take heart people.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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