"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Social media and attention wh@ring

Onion

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In this day and age, can you really avoid dating a girl because she's active on social media? Will you resist the chance to LTR her because she posts comments or selfies? I know the rule in the past this to be considered a red flag.

But times have changed and it is almost impossible to find a girl (HB7+) who wouldn't have done or doing this regularly. I am finding more and more that girls who aren't on facebook or some other media are girls either low on the 'looks' factor, social retards who avoid interactions even in real life or girls with low self image or esteem.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Zapp Brannigan

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I made a thread about this awhile back http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=218223

There are still good women who don't get on social media, but they're hard to find. Don't settle for an attention wh0re just because you think all hot girls post online. The women who post these selfies and have flocks of men orbit them aren't relationship material and never will be. They're so used to male attention that it has gotten to their head, all men become expendable to them, and they're always looking for someone better.

Social media has made spotting bad women much easier. Online they typically won't make their true self, and you should use that to your advantage. If they're posting duck faced, tattoo covered, cleavage showing, selfies on a daily basis, chances are they aren't relationship material.

While it will take some time and looking, wait for someone who's actually worth going out with. Someone who isn't like the typical attention seeking, slvtty, spoiled, modern woman.
 

VladPatton

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hockeyfreak79 said:
Gonewild on redit, social media @ it's finest! :crackup:

Now THERE is where the crazies live! Hot girls, but damn, you know those are some damaged b!tches.
 
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