"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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Hey everyone I like to start off by saying this site is amazing.
Now here is the situation and I would like peoples input on this.
There is this girl I had my eye on and I could kind of tell she liked me, but she was always really cold towards me...because she is younger among other things. So one day i found out she is dating someone and she obviously tries to bring it to my attention but i play obvlivious not showing that i knew nor care for it. Ever since then she messages me and talks to me evry chance she gets...and is much more open towards me now. It's weird to me...Im thinkign either she just happy she got a boyfriend and doesnt care anymore or that she was just putting me trough one of her "girl tests" and decided she liked me a lot more. BTW I know for a fact that her relationship is nothing serious...
 

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Usually if a girl is really interested (knowing you are too), she'll make you think she is single (if she isn't).

It can't be a shy thing, otherwise she wouldn't be texting/calling you all-of-the-sudden.

My guess would be to make her current fling jealous .. don't let her use you.
 
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