"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So she is ****ed up in the head

Lifeforce

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Right. I got this girls number a while back and I texted her about two weeks ago. No reply so I decided her IL was low and I moved on since its not my style to pursue or try to "seduce" women.

Anyways, today I got a phone call from this same girl. Turns out she had been having a few glasses of whine and was a bit drunk. She starts asking how things are with me and we talk then she goes into how bad her life is. How every man have just used her and left her and how angry and sad she was about all this. How failed her life was and that nothing was good. I responded "Would you like some cheese along with your whine" mohaha.. well that was what i thought at first. The truth is that that call had a really scary tone to it.

She asked me what I was doing today and wanted me to come over. I made up an excuse that I was meeting up with a friend. She continued to talk about how bad everything was and that she was just faking who she was. Then she asked me to come over again and asked how things were with me a second time and a bit later a third time before I could hang up.

She obviously was really great at faking who she was because she seemed genuinely happy when I talked to her. She seems messed up in the head and to be honest I am scared I'll end up with a knife in my chest if I blow her off. She knows where I live and she knows I'm single. Not that I am ever going to go on a date with her.

I got no idea why I'm writing this but that call was ****ing scary. And I'm not easily unsettled. Maybe some of you guys got experience what to do if you run into a girl who's ****ed up in the head like this. :confused:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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War Against Betaism

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The classical Hollywood movie approach (which I like to call AFC bootcamp) is to visit her, talk to her, take care of her, etc. Though honestly it's up to you. If I was in that situation, I probably would try not to get involved with her. First off, she only calls you when she is drunk, ignored you two weeks prior, and to top it all off, she sounds like she has a demented life. Though unfortunately my good side would probably give her a chance, but after that, I would forget about her.
 

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Hey this original post was a waste of perfect data storage space. Can't believe I got so unsettled by a phone call. :crazy:

WarAgainstBetaism: Well I won't try to take care of her. I know everyone want to be nice and help people but in reality there just isn't much a person can do to change another. Thanks for replying though. :up:

DonS: I think you missed the incentive I would have for having sex with someone who's personality I despise. Doubt I could get my **** up if all I was feeling was pity when she doesn't do **** to improve her life. She's not worthy to have sex with me until she ****ing proves she's not just alive but living.

If you really would have sex with someone like that then you really need to take a look at yourself. Stop selling yourself short, put some value on yourself man.

There's a reason why I don't try to "game" or seduce girls and that's because I don't give a **** about what women think of me. They either like me or they don't. If a girl is hot every guy goes crazy over her for no reason. Men need to stop accepting women for their appearance only. Call them on their bull****. The thought of having 5 HB 9s wanting to blow me really doesn't motivate me at all if they don't have personality to back it up. Looks is common nowadays and many women just have the "looks card". If you wanted to motivate me then say "you'd get 4, intelligent, motivated women with goals in life who like to work out and try new stuff" and I'd want to **** the living **** out of them.

Getting a girl with high value traits is not something you can get from gaming a semi-suicidal, depressed chick with anger issues. Hell will freeze over before I'd hit a girl like that.
 
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