So now,...

[gr8one]

Okay, to summarize.

I've been dating a Co-Worker that has pretty much blown me off etc. From what I gathered, and from what my Boys' Recon has revealed is that she is on the rebound with like 3 guys, my self included in there somewhere...Whoa

I have started to Spin other plates and am now looking forward. I am going to run into Homegirl at one point in the near future. She has NO Idea I've moved on. I have a suspicion that she'll want to LJBF me..LoL

I'm all FOR IT now! How should I react, look at her, and talk to her now that I've gone ahead and let her go?

I am curious to see how many people post. The reason I'm posting is because of today's Newsletter. it basically said that If a girl has been dating jerks/bad guys she probably likes it that way, etc...

Long story short, I KNOW that I AM NOT the Man for her! Although "Closing the Deal" would be fun, I have no more intentions of keeping her as more than just a friend. Afterall, she DOES have access to some personal info/ paperwork of mine..so it's kind of catch-22...

I need to handle this delicately, yet have her feel like she is in control...LoL

Alright, that's it.

Gr8one

 

[Docs]

Lying works,

 

[gr8one]

LoL Lie?...

I would never lie to a ,..wait yeah I would.:crackup:
I like that, but what kind of lie?
I'll most likely play it like Clark Kent. Gee whiz, LoL.

 

[TONYMONTANA523]

u know what i had the same problem so i just started acting like whatever. I talked about other girls flirted in front of her and guess what she came running back. She still my friday night booty call.

 

[RecoveringAFC]

If I'm in a relationship that I wouldn't mind ending but keep going for sex or other selfish reasons, I usually manipulate the girl into breaking up with me. She feels better, has that sense of power and best of all I don't look like the jerk who broke up with her. It's all a question of how you do it.

 

[Natch]

LJBF her first.

 

[decades]

LJBF first....good. Tell her that you realized dating at work is not a good thing and that you hoped you could be friends. Be careful because she may start Really dragging you into her drama. Youngins. Don't date at work. There are exceptions to this rule. But not many.

regards

 

[joekerr31]

gents gents gents.

USE HER AS A PRACTICE DUMMY.

if you don't care about this chic one way or another anymore, then use her as a test subject. try out various DJ techniques.

always always always use women who you are no longer interested in as practice dummies.

i'm not saying totally re-engage with her. im saying the odd time here and there that you run into her toss out a DJ technique and see how it works. you might gain a few valuable insights that will save your butt down the road when a high quality woman comes along.

 

[Docs]

always always always use women who you are no longer interested in as practice dummies.

Damn right, Exes are perfect for that

 

[flexion_]

I need to handle this delicately, yet have her feel like she is in control...LoL

Why? How does that make her attracted to you?

It sounds like you didn't have much to start with related to this girl so just move on and don't worry about it.

 

[gr8one]

Thanks for all the Feedback Gentlemen. I have been busy with work, so haven't seen the chick. However, I have started spinning other plates and have never been better! Went to a Halloween Party this weekend as a guest of a Plate... Met some of her friends from Out of town. Gonna use this one as a Networking Connection