So let's shed some scientific light on this

[JohnnyStrabler]

-Had a GF
-GF cheated with friend
-shun them both
-She still texts me even went as far as SNEAKING a love note at my house
-Says she is not interested in my friend
-But still talks to him
-Basically I am non-responsive (whaddya expect?) apparently he is
-Still tries to get in contact with me

Scientifically, given the hypergamous nature of women, wtf is happening here?

Is she cheating on him with me?
Is she cheating on me with him?
Was I beta that is why she cheated? Then how come when I left, suddenly she wants me back?
Why not stay with him?

WTF is going on!?!?! Its been like 3 months since we broke up

Science says that women will nest with a beta, but wants alpha genes

there is a perfect opportunity for her to nest AND have the alpha genes (given that my "friend" is the alpha that she cheated with and now can lock him down since he is talking to her)

 

[betheman]

-Had a GF
-GF cheated with friend
-shun them both
-She still texts me even went as far as SNEAKING a love note at my house
-Says she is not interested in my friend
-But still talks to him
-Basically I am non-responsive (whaddya expect?) apparently he is
-Still tries to get in contact with me

Scientifically, given the hypergamous nature of women, wtf is happening here?

Is she cheating on him with me?
Is she cheating on me with him?
Was I beta that is why she cheated? Then how come when I left, suddenly she wants me back?
Why not stay with him?

WTF is going on!?!?! Its been like 3 months since we broke up

Science says that women will nest with a beta, but wants alpha genes

there is a perfect opportunity for her to nest AND have the alpha genes (given that my "friend" is the alpha that she cheated with and now can lock him down since he is talking to her)

there is no scientific evidence, he had soemthign she wanted, its was inserted into her, turns out it wasnt so hot, changes mind, needs safety blanket, [thats you] now just tell her to fCuk off

 

[JohnnyStrabler]

there is no scientific evidence, he had soemthign she wanted, its was inserted into her, turns out it wasnt so hot, changes mind, needs safety blanket, [thats you] now just tell her to fCuk off

Why, in an evolutionary biological sense, would this happen? What is her hind-brain thinking?

I thought alpha gets all the girls, betas get the lower tier ones, omegas cant have any, while gammas just sneak in for the scraps.

If so, why is she coming back to the beta she cuckolded?

P.S. no, I leave a window of opportunity open, I LOVE seeing her squirm

 

[betheman]

Why, in an evolutionary biological sense, would this happen? What is her hind-brain thinking?

I thought alpha gets all the girls, betas get the lower tier ones, omegas cant have any, while gammas just sneak in for the scraps.

in terms of alpha males selection and options, the majority of women always have more, only these days can they freely indulge in their options because some douche will take them back, good luck tasting his *** on her ips

 

[JohnnyStrabler]

in terms of alpha males selection and options, the majority of women always have more, only these days can they freely indulge in their options because some douche will take them back, good luck tasting his *** on her ips

No I wont take her back thats not what I mean when I said I like seeing her squirm and wouldnt tell her to completely fcuk off, what is wrong with you? I do enjoy the validation and the DHV she gives me, she is basically my stalker.

Think about it, she snuck into my apartment and left me a card lots of lulz to be told to the boys

EDIT: how many guys do you know that has a stalker?

 

[dudewut]

Leaving is an alpha move.

Not only can you hold your head high, you have redeemed yourself.

 

[bigneil]

F*ck her and then leave her.

 

[JohnnyStrabler]

F*ck her and then leave her.

Thinking of doing that, but then she wouldnt think that what she did was wrong.

 

[SoSuave666]

Every good looking dude gets chicks, whether he is alpha or beta. The newness of a prospect might turn a girl on even though you are a true alpha who fvcks her brains out. The difference between alphas and betas are than an alpha moves on/has many other viable options. A beta is stuck on one girl.

 

[Sneevox]

She instinctively believed she possessed you. She lost you. Your value went up because you were suddenly something no longer attainable. It's like a little kid in a toy store. If there is only 1 Buzz Lightyear toy and a million of the other toys, he'll want the Buzz Lightyear toy even if he doesn't even like Buzz Lightyear simply because it's considered "rare".

It's the same reason humans want diamonds. Because they're rare.

You just have to appear as a mound of dirt that MAY be full of diamonds. Not simply a mound of dirt and not a pile of diamonds. Nothing is really as fun if it's just handed to you rather than you having worked for it.

That's why you always have to be the chase.

Also, I'm going to say she cheated with him before you even knew about it. That's always how it is.
Leave the b!tch.
You don't need a girl like that.

 

[JohnnyStrabler]

Also, I'm going to say she cheated with him before you even knew about it. That's always how it is.
Leave the b!tch.
You don't need a girl like that.

Oh great. More things to think about....

I was not planning to sleep tonight anyways.

 

[Sneevox]

Oh great. More things to think about....

I was not planning to sleep tonight anyways.

If you're not thinking, you're not alive.
Just think really hard. Ignore emotions. I bet you won't find a rational reason to stay with her.

Anyways, you'll be fine, man. I went through the same ****, except I didn't even date her. I kissed her multiple times and almost ****ed her, but I never dated her.

Just do what I said and everything will be cool.
Just remember: DON'T RELAPSE.

You don't WANT the b!tch. That's why you're leaving. Not to get her to come back to you.

Why would you want a cheating *****? It's her fault. She can't control herself. It's also your fault for being so womanly.
A woman wants a man.

Work on it, dude. You'll be alright in the end, and you'll come out stronger.

My apologies if I offended you. I'm just a very blunt person.

 

[JohnnyStrabler]

What Would James Bond Do?!?!?

 

[The Gambler]

What Would James Bond Do?!?!?

Hahaha, the wise question of kings.

If you get the chance, do a bit of digging here and you'll find several threads that are really quite similar to your situation. I love reading the older ones, because many of them have updates that tell what wound up happening, sometimes years later. All of these stories have their own twists and turns, but the common result is that getting back with her almost never works out in the end.

The Gambler

 

[flashpoint]

What Would James Bond Do?!?!?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rhJkILGSqUo
from 3:21 to 3:38

 

[sylvester the cat]

She doesn't think much of you, does she?

In the story of your life, she is a test. A test of your strength and character.

What you do will determine your character. If you take her back neither you nor her will ever respect you and quite rightly. it would be a weak decision made only out of fear that you cannot find happiness without relying on someone else.

Forgive her yet remain forever out of her reach and she will forever kick herself for losing what a true man you really are whilst you will grow in confidence knowing that your sense of self and happiness does not reside with a woman.

Kill 'em with kindness i say...

 

[zekko]

She's a wh0re.

 

[JohnChops]

She's a wh0re.

Lol correct you are, im guessing shes a blonde ? Theres no biological connection to it, in theory women want to mate with the showiest males because for many species thats an indicator of "good genes" . However, zekko is right, shes just a regular ***** .... nothing special ... move on now .

 

[JohnnyStrabler]

fear that you cannot find happiness without relying on someone else.

Fear to be thought of as weak and the other person (my "friend") as the victor.

And fear that I am alone and they have each other. Fuuuucckkk man, all these feels.

 

[Purefilth]

And fear that I am alone and they have each other. Fuuuucckkk man, all these feels.

they deserve each other they are both treacherous pieces of sh1t.

Be a man, walk away smiling forget both of them and enjoy your life without a cheating wh0re and a backstabbing "friend".