Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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So I'm off to uni...

Gunner26

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Now I'm moving into a student village with about 2000 other freshers and I'm undecided on a few things.

First is that I'm sharing a flat with 6 other people, now my logic is telling me that from the outset I should just be friends with everyone on my floor including the HB's, rather I should go for their new HB friends living elsewhere. But what if it turns out that I get an HB9 or something living with me, should i try it on anyway?

Second, and I think this a bit of a no brainer, but I wanna just check with others who might have done this, is it worth gettting a package deal that gets me into all Uni events for the year?

And last, theres quite a few clubs I've been thinking of joining, but what would you recommend, straight up Boxing or something a little more varied like Karate? I'm going to be taking up football anyway but just wanted something else to do on the side and thought learning something like this might help me with my confidence if I knew I could handle myself in certain situations :trouble:

Cheers for the advice in advance

Gunner
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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def do boxing, join a gym. get a nice workout plan,get lots of ladies at your uni, slay em all hahah,oh and dont forget to not fail your courses.
 

Gunner26

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thanks for the link, ended up watching all 8 parts :p laid things out nice and simple
 

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I'll be going into Second year in a few weeks time, so what you're thinking what I was last year.
Definitely don't try and hit on your flat mates. It ends with gossip and people talking about you when you leave the room.
Definitely do join in with all the Fresher's events, they're good fun and you meet tonnes of people. I met a brilliant group of mates during Fresher's and most of girls I've gotten with have been on nights with them rather than anything society or Uni related.
Perhaps a dance society? They're usually full of girls and you end up having a good time by the end of it! I met my last girlfriend (a 3rd year) at a political societies social, so just join what you like because you never know who else you'll meet
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ok, thats roughly what I thought might happen if I tried anything with flatmates :p
And yea I plan on joining anything I like the look of, I used to do karate when i was younger and enjoyed it quite a bit thought i might take it or something similar backup.
And as for a dance society any suggestions as to a style, hopefully one thats easy to pickup because im not a great dancer. Thanks :D

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well, i was hoping the username wasn't too obvious....

And leper thanks for the advice, it makes perfect sense really, i don't know how I didn't come to that result myself, I guess i'm still learning :p.
But would you reccomend a martial art society like karate or do you agree with claphamski that i should maybe go for a dance one; and if so which style?

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A martial art is 10x better than dancing well. I would have to advise you that judo or kickboxing are the most practical martial arts.

I just took up jiu jitsu today actually. I've been doing kickboxing for a few years, so now I can expand to another martial art.
 
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