"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So... I'm in a LTR, and a newly single female friend asked me for Brunch (solo)...

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Shivastorm_88

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She was an old friend from work, but I haven't seen her in more than a year. We chat from times to times on FB Messenger, but that's about it.

She is newly single, was seeing a guy. She thought they were exclusive, but she got burned because he was still sleeping with his ex behind her back.

Now she asked me for brunch to "catch up". She know's I'm in a LTR with a (I have proclaimed it many times to her) girl that fits all my criteria in a partner. I will be going, as I do not see anything wrong with catching up with an old friend.

I'm just worried she has a hidden agenda. What do you guys think?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Women want what they can't have..... However any man who is in a LTR must have a side girl.

A side girl keeps your inner game intact. It prevents you from going AFC as your LTR progresses.

A side girl is not someone you sleep with. Its someone you use to sharpen your game. (flirting... Sexual innuendo.... Testing your sexual vibe to see if you still got it)


Go to brunch.. Spend no more than an hour.... Split tab.... And make sure to project fulfilment / completeness.

SHE HAS NOTHING YOU DESIRE.
 
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go to brunch and think nothing of it. a daytime public activity that doesn't involve drugs or alcohol isn't going to cause any problems.
 
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Tiguere said:
Women want what they can't have..... However any man who is in a LTR must have a side girl.

A side girl keeps your inner game intact. It prevents you from going AFC as your LTR progresses.

A side girl is not someone you sleep with. Its someone you use to sharpen your game. (flirting... Sexual innuendo.... Testing your sexual vibe to see if you still got it)


Go to brunch.. Spend no more than an hour.... Split tab.... And make sure to project fulfilment / completeness.

SHE HAS NOTHING YOU DESIRE.
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^ This
 
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